Reincarnations: Understanding Tragedies (2 of 4)

we last time we spoke about the union of gilgulim we opened up a petta we spoke about a few of the ideas behind the gilgulim I just want to recap what we ended up the last year with the last time okay and from there we'll speak about a little bit of a couple practical ideas which we can take away with this instead of being only abstracts okay of being only abstracts Zeta we mentioned that there's really three different types of gilgulim okay three different types of Google thing one that goes when a person is the nashama himself that was the first type we said when a person is born within a shama could be a ghula for previous so a person totally doesn't feel it it's automatically within the person it's the same that you have that's the previous of his own it's his own shama and that's what no no someone else's Michelle came back but that's you're in the shop there's not two it's not two the second type we said that's when it's that's by a bike when a person's conceived when a person is almost born a child a fetus is about to be born there could be uh another nishama that latches on to him kind of like clings on to him that's called means it has his own and then there's another which is a ghoul of something else that automatically latches on to that uh to that person okay to that person that latches on to that person and that could be something that can be good or bad meaning if you've got a nishima of a Sadiq so it could end up being good for you it can help you do things and have it so sometimes you see a person who naturally has inclinations to do the right things that can come from this type of ibor or you have a person who's natural incarnations to do bad things something that we would say about a person he's possessed right Sometimes some people say that about their spouses right right I just know what got into her right so that came from soda ibore you understand so now she has an excuse and now there should be no more challenged problems okay that should be okay it came from a thing that from within another nashama which could be on a little bit of a lower level I have to someone speaks Hebrew you might just tell me I'll be a little lower in the corner I'm not gonna [Music] um the it's a little bit uh it gets the person into a certain mode where he becomes a little bit more of a let's say a bad person or a little bit of a negativity the third one which is what we're also familiar with is what we call the booking okay these we might bring some stories not today even in the future about these types of things which uh which occur okay and that happens in a proper adults a person who's 20 years old 30 40 a person adult fully fully thing it becomes possessed it can happen through an accident by just being next to being in the wrong place in the wrong time was running away usually the reason why dibu could be the back is not for a tikkun right the first two are there to be metaken himself to finish up a job you understand he was not so good he needs to finish himself up the third one the book usually they're doing it because they're trying to run away from their problems okay that means almost 90 and I think 100 of the time it was a bad person it was a Russia and he's getting smashed by the Malachi and he doesn't know where to run where to hide and he is only one remember when you used to play a tag right and you also have your safe you can hold on to here and you're safe right if you hold on to the Bowl then you go and you run behind the guy so he won't tag and you hold on I'm safe now right that's what happens with the debut you understand when he's possessed inside of a body can't get to him they can't get him this is he can't be touched Hashem worked it out that way why deserves to be best right things we spoke about in the previous room about what happens to uh a person through the Malachi he deserves to get something but when he's in someone else's body they can't get to him you know what are they gonna do hit the person what'd I do wrong I didn't do anything wrong why do I deserve this so he's in safe he's unsafe right why is he involved you'll see from the stories he was in the wrong place at the wrong time that's it there was one I think I mentioned the other side just runs away I said not long ago the girl she was a 17 year old girl and she was in the stall with the horses at the wrong time and the horse died because then there was a d book inside of that horse and he had to find himself away because he was out of the horse he was in a horse and he was trying to fight himself in they're on their way so he saw this girl and boom he jumped in her and that's it and she she was possessed until they were able to get rid of him okay that's that's how it works okay now if you ask him what's fair and not fair it's a little fair and then those types of things were said it could be part of his capara that type of thing is a little bit of a difference from a classic because the two first guilim are there together the book A lot of times there to protect himself and that's why when the time will come and we'll see the story of the time also when they try to get rid of the debug he mummies resists I'm not in his answer because oh you know what I'm in for you pull me out of this person's body I'm in big trouble right his mom was scared to leave the body and he's running away to be able to do it so they scream and they're they're very vulgar I don't know if you've ever understand they say a lot of curse words and they can Mama and everybody's closing their ears and it's not my team and all that because we're talking about we're talking about low low lives as they say that that had this dark of a situation these are the three types of euglium that happens now one other nekuda mentioned a couple of see how to apply this a little bit practically to us if I can okay one other nekuda is it doesn't always go straight to a person okay ghoul doesn't always happen to him you know as we all know the world is made up of we all know we made it before elements okay even in a table you can have in table this table get up again right here having a copyright right now it doesn't matter in an animal I just told you the story about the horse and it can be in it now here in he brings the arizo again it's not so abstract I'm just trying to bring out some practicalities and then we'll be able to speak out how we can apply this to us and Sharko galimi actually speaks out an interesting phenomenon he says the way to be metaken each one of these four things has a specific time there's a time for each one you can't be my Titanic only Within a certain time period a domain meaning if inside this table there's a gilgoo it can only beam it to cut between AV and heshvan from Ave now just right now finishing up right now right now we're in Dome time right right now we're in 2009 if you want to remember the domain then it's only between AV and those are the four months in the year that it works okay that's four months in the year the that's mahim is from Nissan it works from Nissan until tamus until Nissan until tamus you understand is from Ki slave next month until Adar if he misses those months it's not going to work until next time okay now let me explain to you why am I now what I mean let me tell you a good example of this so to make a practical so I don't sound abstract right I said when is the time for Somaya for plants how can you beam attack in the plants I said the time period was between Nissan right between Nissan and tammuz which is a four month period why is that special why is it that's very noteworthy because what do we do in the beginning of the sun why do we do beer cutting or not so simple race Cafe you open it up because there's a mits to appreciated there's a beginning behind it because we're supposed to appreciate the fact that there are gilgulim inside of the trees many many trees of gilgulim inside of them that are trapped inside of them and they want to get out so when we go and make a bracha on the tree that is beginning to flourish so then we are being metaken the guild that's within it and they're very appreciative that's why like speaks about this that's why there's a certain advantage to go and find more than one tree we actually at least two or three trees so Adima even more Macbeth about this to go out into a field into the orchard because over there is more eugolimar found outside in the in the fields and to try to get as many trees as you can because you get to do as many in one shot as possible because you tried to beam into Ken the tree easy fellow and he had a little bit more to do so he has to come back to the tree and then from the tree he's going to go to the high from the bear and hopefully then he gets to go to Allah but he doesn't get he doesn't have the scoot to get cleaned and get him because he still needs a little bit more tikoni and sometimes some people are lucky enough if they need a little bit they go straight to amida Bear they go straight to a person but some people need a lot more so they go to cats right outside the go to a cat the cat will come in the base minerals and make all the problems over here and then right foreign that's also one of the questions a big question if you miss Nissan if you don't make percate Nissan can you make it in ER can you make it the next month right so I'll be what we're seeing over here really it's a Nissan's a million times but ER until Thomas you're still good now people shot you can't do it in tamils it's already a little bit late because anyways there are fruits but I'll piso you really are allowed to do it a little bit later oh that's why we say so if you look in the city are you hoping they said there's a whole tikkun on what we're doing and it's a tikkun for us that's what we're writing about because of the same many people say the broth on the same tree what is that are they like helping right good question but uh it is true and you should know there is a certain mileage to get as many trees as you can it's good to Branch out but if you don't have a choice then there's still a Mitzvah peep chat but our peace our peace so there is an Indian to try to take their own tree that's it there you go tree next to the shoes are very lucky so yeah he planted himself in the right place he speaks about this and he says a wild thing before I saw him write this I would have never guessed someone could say such a thing but he's a big man and he says this he says everything I just told you was absolute hogwash he totally when he says it's all it's all it's all a bunch of baloney and I told you it's it's only reason I don't know he just says it's not true that's not what he meant he changes the whole thing why does he say that he says if that's true it's a very simple question I told you that that's the America is starting next month until other from so he says we should all go to a bunch of sheep next month and we start making all the Sheep why don't we say what happened is that it's only when the flowers start abrupting if it's before you start seeing a fruit abrupt and you're not supposed to if there's already fruit you're not allowed to he says why not if you could do it you could do it why not if you can already uh if you can already do it you should be able to do it is it disturbing I'm okay with it it's not disturbing for you table the table's a little bit harder but you should do the same thing during those months that's what you should do that's his problem okay now to answer this will be a good question now again there's a reason how people Shadow episode with this machine but you're right that's that's what he asked so he says he says that the only way to really make a tikkun is by making a bracha well you're asking how do you really make it by broccoli and eating or drinking it like I just did this whether it's water I give an example I want to show you how it works you make a bracha and especially if you have kavana so then he says you make a proper tick and that's what it is and believe it or not that's what they say he says it's in their result so when you take a an animal when you eat meat so you let the meat right an animal is supposed to be checked it and eaten and when he gets a program and you bring it up one dargah and if it's at samach if you're eating salad you you did them a favor you hear from here is awry for being healthy because it says there's an advantage of eating a Uric or it's Emma because you jump to dargot you got him to skip a dark he went from being a vegetable to being an Adam to being Amanda Bear you follow what I'm saying he skipped to he skipped becoming high as an animal he doesn't go straight from being a vegetable to a benadam and now you're being meta Gilmore you follow what I'm saying and I was I also had the same question how do you attack on a table but this is what he writes here and I think I'm saying he says when a person sometimes eats something like afar he says the word afar we don't eat a fart I don't know exactly how it is but apparently sometimes you consume something that's a little bit uh what we would call a domain so that also works which I don't cake taste like sugar it's a good example okay I won't tell your wife you said that [Laughter] is it's bad it's very bad you should know always the the lowest ones yeah so again without without what I would have told you is right now we're learning around the table it's a tikkun okay he himself says by the way he says he said he said to him it takes the clip out of the things and it's able to so term it's what does help so it could be that by us standing around your around this table we're being metakiana by now it's already very much yeah that's right by the way that's why sometimes the shares back there sometimes this year back here so next week is going to be down here okay right we tried to make sure to Ken all the uh all the aspects but so I think even he would agree that Toro meets what uh dafka does help okay you got it okay that's uh that's that's how it is okay that's the way uh that's the way these things work and uh that's what it is so maybe go tell him and said yeah tell him nicely just tell them that you just feel a little bit he's doing by himself so that's why it'd be your advantage right who says you don't know first off first of all uh first of all you don't always do it you do it on the fruit you don't do it on the tree but you're right you don't know it was it's not always uh people don't always do it sometimes they don't have fruit or whatever it doesn't give you something you talking about it's an advantages on the tree okay so you bring just so you know review who the fattai brings a mindset to bring out this idea by the way he brings a mice with a woman who was in a regime she was in a mill she was filling the she was doing there in the olden days used to work not like us they have she was actually filtering through all the although I don't work hard I'm saying she was in the flower she spent 12 hours in the thing filtering through all the flour going through each one and sieving it or whatever she was and she found inside of the flower she found a date a Tamar she found a date and she made a broken and she ate it okay about an hour later she started dozing off like I said she was working long hours the middle she dozed off and she had a dream she had a dream an old man came to her this is a story The an old man came to her and he told her he told her um I appreciate what you did thank you very much you didn't do a great job you didn't do it you didn't help me so much but you helped me thank you for helping me and he gave her a thank you and that's it and then she woke up she said no what the heck is this guy talking about who's this guy do you know what he's recognize him for his life for her so she went to review the fataya you know he was around so she went and she told him so he said what were you doing did you eat something when you were in the middle he guessed to the story kilo he said you were when you were filming she said uh yeah I remember I had a date and said he said you made a brother yeah I made a brock on the date he said did you make the right brother I said yeah I made it right Brock on the data make a break that's what you're supposed to make this is women in Baghdad come down I'm not sure exactly what happened afterwards but you got some type of tikkon so come on and we see from here that was at the benches it's what you come out of your mouth it's right it's it's based on what uh you say yes that's that's how a person is able to to survive okay so that's what it is okay that is this you saw that we call them a little bit this idea of understanding at one point and then I want to bring out a very important idea now I just want to mention Varian cancer there is a machlock it here something that not one of these but it is good to know if you look in the different what is mitukan by the gilgun what becomes by the gilgore now if you remember we mentioned that there's a nepheus now the nephesh is almost the physical part of the body even an animal could have an effort that's what makes him alive though it's what makes them different from the table in front of me he has a Lifeline that Dom one fish anything Adam anything that's alive as as an effish the shama is much more the that's the that's the spiritual connector between us and the spirits that becomes that becomes recycled everyone agrees to that that's Pursuit okay the question is does the nephesh also become re uh redone this is also or does that go with the person does that die with a person okay the villanue he writes and once you are the person's once he's broken once he does the wrong thing the nephilis goes with him he goes it disappears with him whatever happens to him as a Fusion on Jonah say for Jonah an absolutely beautiful peers he explains the whole Yona is almost a Michelle to the Goof of the nephesh the Goof and there's the water and Jonah was the nashama and he was running away and he was trying to run away from the Goof and he has a whole all understanding so he's thrown into the water which is the Olam he was thrown into Allah he had to drown in this world he has a beautiful pusion the whole idea of Yona it's a it's a Sheeran itself it's a beautiful concept I one time spoke about on Yom Kippur and Yom Kippur itself before the reading of you now but anyways the over there he writes these words when he writes over there he says the nephesian he says the nephesh will be to be to be that's a sheet of the God but if you open up I might give me charm you know this Joseph Moran I bet Joseph yeah reviews of Cairo everybody wonders how he's able to write so much in his lifetime he was a crazy amount that he's written between the Chicago just writing the physical words and besides the fact that there's so much information in there anyway so the answer is he had a malach that was by him if you go to svat they know the room that he learned in and they say this is the room they learned with cutting around this is the place where the malach was sitting next to him also so I was trying to find the Malachi he wasn't there in the meantime I guess he left but there is a place where if you want to go it's like that you it used to be open but because people were not treating right so that it's locked but you can get the key to look inside it's underneath the shul of the bay Joseph and there's a safer written the Magid me sharim which is a lot of things the Magi the malach told and one of the things was he says not like the villain of God you didn't write those words but he says nothing's been all gone he says go and they're also meet golgil meaning even in a Rashad not only is this but you should know also the nephesh gets a um and and is able to beat gal Gail and it's able to go again and again but he adds one important thing this isn't available now I'll go back to villanue one important point I want to mention to you listen to this he says a nashama can only beat me to go a certain amount of times if there won't be after a certain amount of times it's too much and if it goes back again it can cause it won't be good for the nashama it doesn't fix it up it doesn't get recycled why because the more it's kind of like when you have an old car you understand like an old car the more years you have for those of us living in Israel I think mostly because most of us can relate to this the more years you live with it you start even more bangs and Booms and you have to get more mechanics in this so then hashama once it gets recycled a certain amount of times it becomes too exposed too weak to the Citra the the Satan if you want becomes can get more of its Clay Pot on top of it and it's not so good which is very interesting because we are 100 alley right now okay everybody buy us already a couple hundred years ago the reason already said we're already almost all gilgolumbs so for sure for sure by us okay we all have this so the more we're already the final recycling of the gilgolin okay and therefore and therefore because of that that's a good explanation of what we call you either today the lowing of the door out why we wonder why we're in such a low dark why are we in such a bad place but the answer is because we're so exposed to this we're so exposed to the extras that it's not good so therefore were in more apparel or more danger you understand what I'm saying we're more exposed to to the bad elements and that's why so many bad things can happen to us it's a good excuse maybe also right but at the same time you should know that this is where it comes from it comes and it's a very good explanation because we're already sofa gilgudim we're at the end it's one thing but like I said like a used car it almost needs to be rehapped and there's always more problems with it so we're ready at the final end of doing it so that's why it happens you understand which is already what I'm going to move on to the next subject I'm getting to one second which already explained to you a little bit about we're going to talk about special children autistic autism and and people and and children dying young and all these types of things that comes from this uh phenomenon yeah can you go home sweetie oh yes it's hard for me to know 100 but when we were speaking about death we did speak here that there is enough fish that came next to the to the dead person and apparently that there's some type of difference if the nephesh is still there by the person even by the cover even afterwards or whatever it is okay Center understand what I'm saying there is such a thing but you're right I don't have a clear enough coming to home for sure yeah yeah I'll tell you later a story but there are sometimes stories of people that remember I heard a recording of someone recording it over so it wasn't he was telling one person the guy secretly recorded wasn't so nice but I heard the recording I'm just saying I'm pretty he wasn't doing it in public to show off you know probably any moments remembered everything he remembered his yeah but most of us don't remember yeah right oh how do you know that there's something he also David I said last week that I'm gonna get to I wanted to get to it this week and that was borderline but I'm going to get to that also how you know what tiku is supposed to do this is what the time we're going to get to there you'll see okay I'm going to speak about right now about autistic kids and all these types of things after that I'm going to speak about how we know what to be with taken okay we'll see if we get to both I'm not sure but at least we'll try piece by piece okay now everyone always asks the questions about come over and little kids that die it doesn't make any sense how a little child especially until Bar Mitzvah knows even right so why do these tragedies occur so okay so we blame the parents how was that so it was what we do okay I mean under the car you don't blame the parents directly cholesterol right but it's not always that's not always an accurate assessment and because from you know how to do those things that's first of all that first of all and second of all we want to also explain this idea that we know about special children autistic children or people of down syndrome which if we've noticed is incredibly rampant in our door probably much more than any other generation it's incredible how many so we haven't okay so people say it's because we're uh what do you call it taking shots what are they called right immunizations yeah people say because of immunizations or because of what the doors or radiation and all those types of things very sorry but I don't think so everyone tries to blame it but when we look into the spiritual aspect we know we know the real answer so yeah I just want to explain um a couple things that are mentioned okay um okay the remote they bring from a mordecai Schwab like this Webb said a nephil someone who is an FL someone who has a miscon stillborn or miscarriage he says it's that there is and that was the final gilgul and that was the finishing touches meaning when mama's mama's at the end so that's the end you understand and since he's finished so therefore or he might die early okay very early because there was just a little bit of a tikkun to do and that little tikkun was done and that's it and then and Ramos as a chuva believe it or not it's not typical we must have a trooper like this has a tuba if you want to look it up and give him that someone asked him does a nephe team because the nephil also gets a there's a woman has a miscarriage does a baby also get triata maintain so he quoted Marin Sanhedrin that brings that when does a person become a Katan when are you consider it a person and he says we pass in like that from the time of conception from the time that it's a fetus from the beginning it's already considered from clitate zero that's what it says so that's the time that it becomes a child and therefore he says even if he even if there's a hapa Allah she still gets he still gets olama ba and he gets he gets both of them okay who believes her he writes at the end of the two but obviously it was a brother meaning his mother this happened to his mother so the brother was writing to him he writes younger brother that he the brother wanted to know am I going to be able to see my brother that my mother had a miscarriage so he said yes but he says you don't worry about those stuff in the next World you worry about your Torah I mean you take care of these things and that's where the real onig you will get okay that's what he says okay that's uh that's that's that's okay we're in mammal right now but mama is impartial to Amor brings from the Ariza he brings from the arizo that he says um that uh oh he brings a story the mama always brings a story that there was a masseur with a certain poor person who lived in and he needed some money so what do you do when you live in Arizona back then it wasn't so easy he took his horse at buggy and he went down to Mitra he went down to me trying to Egypt to be able to see if he can get some money but you know it's a little bit hard to get money so what do you do you get omelets out from the road now if you get omelets out from their result especially nowadays you'd be good shape right you get a lot of money so he went with them let's start from there he's only wrote about that he's a good guy in this and the reason told him and when you go you should know that you're gonna find your over there also when you go down there okay I need to know what their reason he went down there with them he did nicely bro Hashem he did decently but even more importantly I guess because of the amlanza one of the virim one of the rich people that were down there offered him his daughter his daughter in marriage one of the very wealthy people and he got married to this um to this woman and they had good solid base yes even though she was wealthy and and at the same time no he said no they mentioned they talk about that Stan they deaf could bring down I saw one to myself because they all say when you marry a wealthy person it's always dangerous because they've uh they say you know they have tipio expectations and they all say it's better so one time someone said and he came and he wanted to ask him about the sheriff so he said I have a but I want to mention that she comes from a very poor family so he says is there any other my love that she has does she have any other advantages besides that one is that the only Advantage you have to have to hear everything you know not just from one you know that's a lot of time there's a story about the club's time himself but we'll speak about different time because I'm myself married someone very poor even though he was the hottest item on town he could have bought everybody wanted him like there was ring but he married a very poor person because he did for keep it of M for keep it up you know the story you know he did for keep it up because his mother was in a second marriage and he had a son and he had a good daughter the the meaning her his stepfather had a daughter and the father was insistent to marry my daughter and this guy was poor as a as a penny he didn't have any money right it was a step it was a step sister you're a lidarious stepsister now there is an idea that if you grow up together the gomarn does bring that if you grow up together you shouldn't we don't play like that but myself if you grew up together because it's just Mario Titan it doesn't look good step sister not related no relational so in the end of the day his brothers were adamant but it's potential he was the it was everyone knew what he was going to be and he said if it's going to help my mother shallow bite and it's going to help my situation he did it and he married an extremely poor lady and we all know that he wasn't uh he lived with a he looked to the penny we all know that he had one couch right he didn't have that either right well that's uh that's it anyway so why'd I bring that up so the story with the Ariza so he went down there he married this lady she was very wealthy he ended up making uh he he gave her a big a big uh new Dunya a big Dowry all right that's what he came which it is three months later this was written in the story she died the lady died but guess what because she died what's the rules that went to the husband he was he was your wish all her money he was upset you know it was a nice woman and then okay three months I guess he got over it I don't know what to tell you right but at the same time he ended up he came back to the original sauce afterwards and he told him the whole story what happened you know this poor guy and this whatever I don't know what happened so the original said I'll tell you I knew what was going to happen he knew the whole story he said you should know in your previous Guild ghoul you were hit up by your partner he stole all your money thousands of millions of dollars you had a lot of money buy us Millions whatever it was whatever many rubles there was a lot a lot of money and you had a partner that you were attached to for a number of months you were very saying and you had a very successful business and he ripped you off all your money and you went off with the money and then today it was a proper vehicle this woman was a gilgal of your partner from the previous uh thing you understand he was a she was a guild of them so her tikun her he came against a woman so you have a right you can go back as one we're gonna speak about that but she was her tiku or his tikkun was to come back in this woman to marry you to give you all that money back and then die she did her you know what I mean if she didn't marry you she would have lived a few more years maybe I don't know right but that was her teeth straight from the arizo's mouth no there's no stories made up here yeah straight from the Ariza that's uh that's a story so we see from here they say the mama was by the way if you're in this building you know the memo is a good book right you have to rely on that so I'll go find him that's that's um that's this idea that a lot of times it can be a caparat for other things that occur now listen to this other thing Amisa with the banished okay that he explained something there's a famous mindset now the idea what the name of a nashama another name for a nashama is a picadon it's a picadon that's what's called the picadon is a collateral a deposit the deposit good one right a deposit right a picadon is a is a deposit okay that's what it is so the nashama when it gets distributed into your body this extra that comes into your body it's a deposit into the person's body it's called the picardon so the vanish guy explains with this idea rayon an interesting uh an interesting idea he says this in the mid and midriff and micheli okay la medallife he says there's a famous man said we're ready Mayer had two children who were really telling him and they died on Shabbat they died in Shabbat they had some sickness the two of them they died in their room on Shabbat but rabi mayor did not know about it who didn't know about it his wife Brewery boria was brewing was the uh she was the rabbit son of Robertsons okay she was a monster okay there's gumars and gamars about who Brewery was she was the very big anyways so she covered up their bodies she closed the door and Romero asked where are the boys she said they're in the bay to midrash they're in the baitany rush that's what she told them Shabbat you don't tell them where are the boys so she said I want to ask you one questions before I go get the boys I just want to ask you one question when someone deposits by you a picadon a deposits and then they say I have to take it back though it's time for me to take it back it's not about it do you have to give it back to them or I can keep it now what do you mean you only remember the past game for you but remember the person gives you deposition you have to give it back so she took him upstairs she showed him the two boys and she said they were an ifitar on Shabbat and they were deposits that's the simple understanding on peep shock we understand she was telling that Hashem gave it to him as a deposit but the Benchmark explains what that mean is they had a picadon because a gilgul it's called the bigadan they were a gilgul of someone else they finished their takli they did their like we said little children also sometimes are a new star for be only because they're ideal goal she said the picadon was over they had a pika Don which was a gilgul even Brewer not even but brewing and she gave him and it said he said that was he cried like the Midwest says over there of course he cried but it was in the attempt to know okay there was a Gil ghoul that came to its Tycoon so at least I know that they're in a good place I don't call anesh that's what it means that don't call he says okay but it's a trilo that we say that we know that he knows the of each and we don't know the SATA we don't know what Ella Muna e navel we all know that because things can said we know everyone knows the famous person walks into the school and he sees the people getting out he doesn't know why is this guy getting why isn't the rough getting why is this guy getting why who's the first one the answer is if you're there every week then you'll know it depends which who you're in but and hopefully you'll know the answers but if you just come in and you just see a little piece in the puzzle you don't know what's going on you can't see and that's how we are we don't know the differences but I am pointing out here that is a big reason why we find in our generation which we're in the end of the gilgium I told you one reason already in the end of The Guild that's why we're in such a low uh spiritual level when a logo honey level because where the Citra Aqua has a tremendous amount of clock now right they always explain it similar to the end of a war before the end of the war everyone fights there but when a person knows he's losing his mamish at the end right when Germany was at the end they want Meshuggah they did everything they could to do they would throw everything together they didn't have Einstein they left him in America who discovered the atomic bomb but you don't people don't realize Einstein was a German scientist if he stayed in Germany and gave them an Italian manner of minutes a matter of a year but the other mile is he was Jewish and because he was Jewish they trashed his house they killed his family and everything he stayed in America but I'm going to go back to that they're idiots but they didn't realize that they supported him he would have came back and give him the atomic bomb and ah then I don't even want to discuss what would happen but Nazis so Brooklyn we had it and then ended the war and we the Mary Covenant I'm not American right the Americans hadn't that ended up ending up that ended up ending up uh ending up the war because of it because at the end of a war people throw their last everything if I know I'm going to lose they throw their last name that's what the sitra is doing the Satan is doing in order to be my track that's their end of and second of all we find a lot of a lot of problems with children Etc a lot of for this reason also that that's uh what occurs okay that's the reason why such a thing can uh that's the reason why these types of things can occur yeah [Music] it's also that the assume is a cup around the father but the gilgul is something else is not connected to the father always oh you know what I have to say something no there is there is something for a mayor there was a copper first of all that you saw him is always a cup around just so you know any other person goes through pain there's no better than president they're going through a difficult life when a person is difficult a difficult thing that he goes through it's better than almost everything okay that's the top but there is such a thing that I I did hear from Hermosa Shapiro he did say that gilgulin come back for a tikkun for themselves and uh for themselves but especially he said when it comes to these types of people he said it's a tikkun for the the the the the parents for the parents it's a big tikkun for the parents that's the solution I want to see if I get the legend exactly one time gave to her family okay there was a family that lost a child at a very young age very young age a couple years old and you know you want to see what the what is the go to the door say to mechan such a such a situation so it says like this the midridge brings in coelets that just like we know a father can cause can get problems from a child meaning if you have a child that's after Derek or things like that we mentioned if you remember in the gandham stories that they can lead to an issue sometimes with the father-in-law they know it could make a thing but also that's for prunia that's for bad for good things that a father gets from his son if he's able to raise a child who's in a good shape or something in the right way then he gets routine from such a phenomenon that's what that's the opposite you understand that's what it says for for pruning so for sure first such a thing so told his family that they said every tinok every child that dies at a very young age at a very young age it comes he has a straight ticket a one-way ticket to Alabama that's it he was obviously a Gil ghoul that came and finished Gilgo he goes straight to olamide there was no reason he he didn't do anything wrong he was a pure soul that just had to finish the tikkun so he goes straight to Allah and guess what when the little child is up there he says I need my mommy and my puppy right I need my daddy I can't live here by myself he pulls you in with him you understand he's able to pull the the parents in with the child so it's a tremendous scrut in order to be able to to him so he gets a free ticket to Allah it's a tremendous should ever be relevant for all of any of us but um but he actually says that that's um that's what it is okay at yeah okay that's that's a that's that nakura middles and then with the other piece that I told you that the little children that died come from a gilgore comes from a straight thing you understand now there's also gemara in Sota you'd bet I just saw this recently actually okay The Martin Center brings a famous famous uh thing we all know these are all ideas just to bring out this this concept that I'm bringing out here the gumar and Sota says we'll finish about five minutes okay less than five minutes we'll finish thank good morning you dress brings from in beta Lake we all know the famous said that Miriam said to her father she said Abba you're not having children a Paro is killing them in olamazel he's throwing him in the Nile but you're killing them and olamide you're killing them in this world and the next World by not having the child in the first place what does he mean so Rashi over there in the gemara says what does it mean that you're killing them in Allah because when a child is born right even if they die they're at least a girl he didn't say the word you'll go but they're a tikkun for themselves and they get a straight ticket to olama when a child dies they go straight to Alaba so at least you should have the morning we have the more of it is to the world it brings Bashir master and we're finishing up it's better hear this can you imagine it's better to have a child that will be thrown into the ocean than not to have a child at all uncut that's what he says it's better to have why because that leads that way now it doesn't sound so pretty I'm not saying it's a good thing but to realize the importance of a having children or be being able to to bring more into the world or the tikkund that in hashama is able to have well Elena it's better to have that child even though were thrown into the ore they're going to be killed in a vicious vicious way to drown them despicable right and still and still it's better to do that than to do it in any other type of way now you follow okay um fight we're motion fighting also that you were very similar to this okay and then you could smoke also okay okay he also talks about the national goof that there's a certain advantage of actually being able to be born he's talking about I think a little bit with the Tay sex question that you have the child people wanting to abortion they know a child is going to have day sex famous question where emotion was die hard he was very upset about doing all this taste acting people some people held that if you know 100 every every child who takes X is 100 gonna not live more than two years God you can't live more than a at most two years it's a hundred percent not even a question so if they they wouldn't have inside of the stomach and they know 100 that he has a that the child is going to have taste like so many people wanted to say maybe you could do an abortion maybe not this die hard he said die hard about he said it's better to be born let the tiku happen to the nashama will be born and have the tikon and that's it and then it'll go to okay that's many of the ideas here I could bring you a a number of them um uh the they bring another mindset I saw another mindset but most of all of them writes that when uh nishama goes from the nishamas and kise kavod he's in a great place he comes into the stomach and now we'll show you is a candle on top of him he's learning the whole entire Torah and if he's nifttar if he dies then the nishama is incredibly on a high level because he was this is what he says he was on such Island meaning a child that dies in the stomach and you're in uter right he's at such a high level you couldn't even get to Allah he didn't even want to be put in dilemma said he wanted to say nishamadik he only stayed as an ishama he only stayed in a very high level and since he was on social level and he says it's one of the biggest tiku name for a parent that's incredible the mother who was able to have this baby and able to bring a child that went straight to Allah that stayed completely as a shaman I think so he is a donor calling he brings this idea that's what he says he says on such eye level he brings all the national even the little ones even the ones that you can't see remain on such a high level there able to do I'm just going to end with one last story and that will finish okay he's really the incredible levels that we're discussing with okay this idea that even when a person has this they get a certain uh level that people don't realize that they go straight to Allah when they die at a young level when they do this they bring Roble gurwitz says that he said when he was been nakamable he says such a child is a tremendous hoot and they bring a Micah with the khazanesh that when a father walked in with his Down syndrome child to go ask initial question you didn't just stand up like this he stood up full all the way at herself for the name father was marvelous like take it back because you grew up with a child and you know what he's like you know he's drooling all over the place and this is not so exciting and still at the same time he was willing to do that let me ask one story which is brought in Silverstein the real story from we'll enter the story and gimbal there's a famous bus bombing I'm sure of those who are here are familiar with the number two the number two bus a tremendous amount of veryonim that were in iftar I think almost 20 20 people died at 15 maybe I'm not sure exactly the number a lot of people with those people going to the cartel and they're all a lot of them were known as being very special people they were very special people that were that were there and it was one of the most tragic I mean everything is tragedy at that time we had a lot of bus bombings for those who remember it was 15 years ago but at the same time it was a lot of very crucial people anyways I'll go put him over there what happened was he brings the story a true story about a girl named Java rechnitzer maybe some people know famous that they were they weren't uh sitting shiva they already finished the Shiva it was a few months passed but someone came to visit them from Antwerp someone was someone who was killed on the bus she was a she was a teenage girl or whatever it wasn't she was killed on the bus anyways so the she was on the so someone from Antwerp from Europe came to visit the family okay came to visit the family never met them never knew each other I don't know who you were and they said are you Reckless or family because they've been searching for them a lot so they said yes we're the wrestlers are family they were hunting them down trying to find them back then I don't know accessible it was through internet things access until they were able to find they took a lot of things they said oh yes we'll Reckoning her they said you know they came in and they said I wanted to tell you you have a drishat Shalom from your daughter you have a Shalom aleichem from your daughter the one that was on the bus that was killed they said what in Heaven's name what are you talking about that's not a funny joke right and we don't make practical jokes like that so they said no the mother the muscle the mother said about a few months ago I had a daughter that was nifttar she was a a tinok a baby a one one and a half or something like that and she was iftar and it was hard we had the Shiva we managed in this there was one night I could not sleep the whole night she was in tears she was just turning back and forth running back and forth she just couldn't she couldn't swallow it it had a very difficult night until she finally dozed off she dozed off and she had she had a dream in the and when she dozed off she had a dream that a one a girl comes up to her a teenage girl comes up to her and she said I want to tell you that your daughter is next to us I know where your daughter is and she's okay she goes what's your name I want to know your name what's your name she says my name is Java recknitzer and I was on the bus I forgot to mention the beginning of the dream this woman who was from Antwerp at a part of the dream was she she felt she was on the bus she didn't know she wasn't she didn't know about she was on a bus and she saw blood and she's on explosives and she saw pieces of of a varum of people of Limbs of people flying everywhere and then suddenly she saw this cover recliner come up to her and tell her you should know I have your daughter and she's okay she's in Saipan and she's very happy she said I understand you're talking and she said okay your name is whatever but I understand you're happy but what about us right the parents are not so happy she said yes and then it's painful for us to see it's not such a good experience for us to understand that but I want you to go and know that we are in good hands and everyone is okay and the parents to know also even though it's not so easy for you it's a serum that you need to go through but you should know that we are in a good place so this lady went to still she hunted her down she lives in Android she had to find a reclinator somewhere near the thrills or your slime she had to hunt her down until she was able to find her and and and when she saw her she said she said I wanna she never met the person she wanted to see a picture of Robin and she said if you want to see the picture immediately she they flipped her through a bunch of family pictures they went through picture picture picture picture picture until they got to a certain picture oh that's the girl I saw and that was her and she was able she was able to discern who the girl was from the things they saw a picture of a couple years ago of a picture of her and she was able to turn through all the pictures of the that she saw and she was able to see who I was she remembered her from the dream exactly what she looked like in the family said that was a tremendous nakama for us to be able to to hear such a thing stuff they were a very big keyboard it was overseeing rights that was incredible but he born they were through the whole might sound they were in a moon and be talking they were a very special family obviously that's why they deserve this but okay we see from here that everyone has a as a ticket and there's a reason why and the Golem and sometimes it's good to know because there's a reason behind behind everything okay we'll stop here