What Happens 30 Days Before DEATH? (AfterLife Series #2)

He was at a gathering with many doctors and they had a big question on the board. What is the most dangerous illness around? What is the most deadly illness or what's the most deadly illness that we have around that causes the most uh thing? They're all discussing it. And he raised his hand and he said, I think he was a doctor. I don't know exactly what there he picked up and he said, I think the most dangerous thing that we have is life. Life. Nobody seems to make it. Nobody ever seems to make it. Everybody who lives eventually dies. Everyone who lives eventually dies. Seems to be a very dangerous thing. That can't be because if you think about it, life in itself is a walking time clock. It's a time clock. There's only a time bob. With time everything is going to eventually go and it doesn't end up um and it doesn't end up lasting. It all depends on how you look at it. If you look at it is death and that's it. So you're sitting as we say skid row. You know what that expression is? You're sitting on uh skid row. You know the expression in England, right? you on a death sentence and that's all there is. I remember I have a relative through my wife who unfortunately knew he had a sickness. He we were walking on Shabbat one time he had a leukemia but a very serious leukemia. He's not around anymore. He passed away already. And as we were walking he said to me, you know, I feel like a walking time bum. That's what he said to me. He said to me, I feel like a walking time bum. Because he said, I only have a certain amount of time to live president. I don't know if this helped, but I tried to say, you know, we really all are walking time realms just we're all walking time realms in a different way. Everyone's eventually going to the same place and we all have this thing. I understand it's not uh I think he he was okay with it. I don't know 100% but u but uh yeah, it was a little bit of a sad story, but anyways, Al, I'm just trying to say that everybody has their eventual thing. If you look at it in that way, it looks it's a little bit gory and more morbid and depressing. But when you realize that everything we're discussing, all the things we're going to discuss is vehicles to understanding where we're going and how we're going there and the importance of what to do while you're here. So then we know as the Misha says, it's good to have one hour in this world. We call from Allahabad. It's better to have one hour here because in this one hour there's so much you can do. There's so much you're able to uh do instead of just being this particle in the wind, a piece of dust in the wind or something like that. Okay, that's what it is. I have to read to you before we start in detail what happens a piece from revelia lap beautiful piece it's coming in three weeks it's actually coming in three weeks and para told I'm not going to read the the whole piece I'm going to just summarize in two or three minutes but I I have to show you mish it's an idea that always sat with me until I saw it basically as we all know as sold the why did he sell why do I have to have the first B writes it's not worth it I'm going to die it's not worth it I'm going to die I'm on my way out anyways it's not worth it so over here he brings a kazal it's a gar that says a person should always put his on his to conquer and it brings four steps first it says put it you should always try to to if it doesn't work then if it doesn't work do and if that doesn't work then you should remember the day of death you should remember the day of death that's now the first couple pages he goes through the first three steps doing the eta of course I just want the last part where he says he says what does it mean because when a person remembers the day of death then he realizes we're here on a temporary basis we know we're going to we're going to the depths and it's all over when and he says this is as we say a final flag you're raising this final flag you tried Torah you tried this but no I'm just so enveloped with myara I can't prevent myself. Can't stop. You know, I I know there's Hashem. I have a muna and this, but I I can't control myself. I'm just out of control. So the nothing nothing's working. A person realizes he's in bad shape. He's in a dangerous situation. So his last step is to remember mita, the day of death. Think of that vom is something not animate. You're finished. You're all finished. And if you do that, that is the only way that you can put a final stop to it because you remember, look, I'm just going to be a dead guy. What is What are all these tavot? What are all these things chasing me? You going to help me, right? When you remember, so I'm it's going to stop me from hopefully doing something wrong because I realize what am I doing besides but I'm going down to the kev to the to the to the grave. So what is what is this craziness that I'm running after? It's so it's so stupid. That's what he says. Okay, similar to what we've been speaking about. But he asks the question, a great question. And he says we find an opposite of the same idea because over here by Asov as says why did he sell the Qur why did he give up his spiritual uh dominance why did he give it up because why should I die he and say he was thinking about day of death about death I'm going to end up dying life is short and that's what it is so he said just take it he was willing to give it for a bunch of lentils he was willing to sell himself short for the thing because because it's day of death. 100%. Very good. That's right. So that's what he Yeah. So he says he sold his for just that and he was willing to give it up for that. That's first of all. Then he brings a which is the same you're basically quoting. It's a little bit easier. It says we should have enjoyment. We should kill uh and slaughter animals and eat meat, drink wine, enjoy ourselves. Now it's a by the way, not just it's a not just carp. I know, right? Not eat and drink cuz tomorrow we're in the grave. We're going to die. And he says we see in front of us that they say tomorrow we're going to die. So take advantage of the situation. Eat, drink, and be merry. take advantage of every lust and tya you could take advantage of. That's what they seem to say in order to do that. So he asks a very simple contradiction. He goes, I don't understand. We just got finished telling you the Gumar says if you think about death, it's supposed to encourage you, get you a little bit to do something and my time is limited. I got to do something with my life. What's with me? I got to that's the best way to stop the Yates. The number one way to stop the in a in an SOS situation is by thinking about the day of death. And then he brings Asov and he brings this pok which says the opposite. I start thinking about the day of death and I say let's go for it man. Go for all the hars I can get my hand on. I try to get every single t I can get my hold on. But what's the answer? I'm sure you guys already hear the kun. But by me it's a it's a living idea. But he basically says it obviously depends on the person. For a person who realizes what's important in life and what I'm here for and realizes that there's something after and there's something that's more important and I'm here as a bridge. Like I spoke to you before, I'm here as a as a as a means to an end to get to something else. So he says, "My time is up." The doctor says you have a couple months left. A person has a couple months left. He says, "If if a person knows such information, he's going to take advantage of it as soon as possible. He's going to try to do as much as he can." They was told he by the doctor he only had two two months to live. He told me he he was told he was about two two months to live and he said well he said he sat 24 hours 7 24/7 he was learning to be able to be able to everything during those two months he was trying to review everything didn't speak to anyone just trying to review all his Torah that he was able to do before that that's a person who realizes that's what you're supposed to hear for the other guy we all know what he's going to do right the other guy off the street he's going to do the opposite but it's all a matter of where of where you come from he just says a person who all is everything he wants. So he realizes he's the time is short only a little bit of time and I'm going to have to leave this world. So he's going to jump up and try to take care of all the that he can get his hand on because of the he knows that in the end of the day he's going to be dormant. is going to be finished up as opposed to a person who's going to try to realize asar says quick get something get something get try to get as many as he can he's going to try his best to be able to do it to be able to do it and that's what he says that's why as said I'm going to die why should I waste my time with this stuff I got to do some important stuff I got to go kill some people I got to do do whatever I can do go chase all my tut I got to be able to do whatever I can do. And he brings out Yakov Ainu, the son of As the son of Yitzk, the grandson of Araminu, for a little bit of Tavot, a little bit of Nazid, he could sell himself short to the devil just because he wanted to get some lentils, but just because he had a little bit of tavot, he's willing to give in. That's where the amount of ty can come. A person can give in about what it is. But I'm just bringing out this idea that we spoke out. The idea of thinking about death, it's unbelievable because he's going to take himself in two places. I think about it because I know how to be I have a certain relative which uh you know he is a person who has traveled the seven seas and seen every single piece on this planet you could do. I remember having a conversation with him. I always want to revamp that conversation a little bit. I remember speaking to him about this about you know and after death and what happens and he's we're on the same page. Me and him are on the same page you know. He said I could walk out this door and Carl hit me and I'm going to die tomorrow. You know die in a second. Life is so short. It's so this and that. Everything we were saying was so similar. It was driving bananas, right? It wasn't driving bananas. But it's just so funny how we took it to such different lengths between the two. That's really what made me what pushed me mamesh to to become to push in terms of learning and whatever extent is the idea of death and how short and something always on my mind from when I'm young. Something I always think about something I always think about. It's always on my mind this idea of how life's so short and even when you was sitting in I don't know whatever wherever you are. I was thinking, "Wow, when I'm dead, nothing is all going to continue and I'm not going to be here and no one's going to miss me either, right? You'll be 6 feet under and everyone's going to continue with their movies and their thorns and their whatever they're doing and you'll be okay. They'll give they'll give me your seven days, you know, and then goodbye, you know, like so why why are you chasing after it?" It was always such a thing. This guy total opposite. He takes everything going to die tomorrow. He travels everywhere. does everything you could do every every you know jumps out of planes whatever whatever you can as they say to take advantage of to try to stunt yourself as much as you can enjoy yourself everyone takes it according to the place you can do so of course if we already have a good beginning so we can learn the things that we're going to learn these coming weeks in order to understand the points I was trying to point out to you last week okay that's the idea of this idea sed okay after that introduction to understanding the importance of learning the subject and what it what it should do for We'll now give a summary of the steps of what happens after a person dies. Okay. Basically, there's seven decent steps. We're going to have seven and seven. Seven types of mishbat, seven types of mishbat, judgments that go upon a person. And we'll have seven things that happen to a person after he dies. Okay. It's a good question. We're going to get to that. Yeah. Whether it be on the camera, off the camera, we'll see. But it will be discussed with okay and I'm giving you an overview of a number of the things and believe we'll speak about details of things like that. Okay. Okay. So basically like this number one this is what we'll discuss today is the f number one is we're going to discuss today is 30 days before a person dies there's a certain feeling or the nama is told to a certain extent that he's on his way out interesting that's a result holds that 30 days already before a person is already on his way out according to the there's a certain the ku already starts separating a certain separation from the goof in a load a manifestation one aver one aver one aver each limb limb by limb until it's able to do that now this is a disagreement with the zor apparently because the zor seems to say that it happens right by the time of mita during the same day or hour before whatever during that same time period the holds a 30-day period before and it already is informed that you're in big trouble buddy okay that you're on your way out that bleed out of this nuda is what we're going to speak about today okay says it's not a the kitk He says it's not a stra. He's a person who speaks about these ideas sometimes. He says it starts a little bit 30 days and obviously the day of death is much more serious. That's the first step. But again, this is what I'm going to speak about right now. Number two is a few minutes before a person is nar before a person passes away. He sees the malikov coming. He sees the malikov coming. He's able to say people who know many stories or people who have been talking right before they see they see something and a lot of times they get scared or they're petrified. Themar itself writes that if a person's shaking when he's doing it in a certain way now again you have to be careful when you say these things you see someone shaking but they say that means that the is coming and he sees him or something like that okay the mash if he has a proper interpretation that's a lower level shows that he's on a lower level because he's in big trouble but again I don't want to play judgment rules on anybody that has to do this but uh that's that's what comes out from the so the second step is that he sees the Right. during the actual that'll be the second step we'll speak about I think next week during the itself during the actual death part itself the is the so here we have the opposite the first we had the malik if you don't know Hebrew expression by the way just ask me okay comes the angel of death and then of course we have the which comes and appears which comes and appears and is seen to things when we speak about the near-death experiences we'll speak about in the future millions of cases. I'm not talking about tens. I'm not talking about thousands, not tens of thousands. Millions of cases have over a million cases. Almost 99.9% of them all saw a very strong light, a blinding light, but a light that was very pulley, very mosh, very um uh enticing, very enticing light that made them want to go closer to it. It was a very bright light, but it didn't hurt their eyes. They were still able to see and be able to move closer, which is obviously the similar idea of idea of seeing the screen. Now, the kina is not a light. The light is a creation. Obviously, we speak of the but it's a type of way when we speak about spiral in the when we speak about the way Hashem creates we always refer to or or is always considered the metaphysical idea because the speed of light as Einstein already told us is something we can never reach. It's something above our thing and it's something beyond us. Okay, light in general is something metaphysical. It's something that's hard for us to understand. We can't reach that speed. And when you reach that speed, you go you change time. You go beyond time. time already starts going back in time if you're able to go to the speed of light. So obviously something that anything has to do with light per se is something in the world. It's already in the more spiritual world. That's why always in the refer to everything is all spoken as a so the similar idea I'm just connecting with the near-death experiences that people see a light. They all see a light a light. It's the same idea but they say it's not it's not like a normal life like you see. It's it's something else you know it's something else. Can't explain it. That's everyone says the same words. I just can't explain it's something you know very d it's just a type of light that I can't explain but that that's what it is it's idea that most of what come what I'm saying here is based on zor in different places I'll quote them here and there if you want not that I'm a bucking zor I should have no data here don't think that I'm a bucking zor but everything is quoted in different places on this and you see how it comes out the rabbi noticed to my mother she's calling out all the names and suddenly she says get away go away right before she Mhammed was there. She was telling to go. We're pushing them away. Who is she pushing away to? Mhammed. Because she was calling it Andie. Wow. And then she says, "Get away. Get away. Go." How much was that before she was? It was she passed away. Maybe a month or so. Before a month. Yeah. Interesting. So yeah, a month. She must have seen she must have seen it because it's amazing. Really? There is a reason says in 30 days you already start having sens. Very nice. And she was a very nice lady. Just so you know, she was a very nice lady. I don't think she stumbled away. And when she passed away, she just closed her eyes. Oh, she shake. She pushed away the mother from other but that's good. If she didn't shake and everything, it's a big it's a big uh it's a big thing. She closed. That was it. Unbelievable. See, that shows she was on a high level. Yeah. Yeah. Very nice. Anyways, so that's uh that's that's number three on the list that during the time of thing the person sees the theina. Now what happens is when you see theina you get so pulled by it and attracted to it that the person himself ku wants to die. Not that you want to die, but he wants the person wants to get close to want to go close to the screen. Wow. Wow. Bye-bye. And you separate the nishama and the group separate. The nishama, the spirit and the and the body end up separating because he's so attracted to he leaves his body behind and he goes and has a good time. You understand? Everybody else is crying back here and he's enjoying himself. You understand? Being attached to the body or something. What kind of car? Okay, that we'll speak about it somewhat. Yeah, it's you'll see there's difference between sadikim and rashim will speak about that also. Okay. Um okay. So that's the that's the way usually persons pulled out through this type of thing. There's one exception was Mosher Rabenu which the midra says the midra brings down in za that says that when Moshu was nar when he was nif the nama did not want to leave and you know said okay it's time to come back home. Now most namas are like great I'm so happy to be back home. home is upstairs. They don't want this body. He had to get thrown down here and it's annoying and then Hashem has to be here. The spirit has to be down here. He's frustrated. Why do I have to be here? Only with Mosherenu said, "No, no, no. I'm I'm staying. I ain't going anywhere. I'm I'm home." Right? Because Mosha Rabenu was able to be Matara himself. His his body was completely nama. There was no difference anymore. So, we all know he had a Karen Hud. He had um an aura of light that that that beaconed from his from his from his face, right? You know what I'm talking about? Thought he had to wear a mask, right? We're familiar. Yeah. He had to wear a mask. What that meant is that his nishama's spirit was so pure and his his body was so pure that the nishama glue through the body. Every it was there was no there was no uh there's no opposites here. Everything was perfect. Everything worked in tandem. Everything worked in tandem. So that's why then said I'm I'm settled. I'm good. You know, no for me. I'm I'm home. And Hashem had to pull him out. He had to do tricks in order to pull him out, but he wasn't interested in leaving. Okay. Anyways, that's uh that's number three. After that, we get a little bit more detail. This already gets also is three days. The first three days after a person is the body, the nama goes back and forth from the body. Okay? visits, goes back and forth, goes back and forth to the body cuz it hopes that maybe you know it's not over till the fat lady sings as I say who knows maybe I still have a chance to come back comes back he keeps thinking maybe I'll find myself back he'll find himself back those first three days he keeps going back to the kever until as the zora writes he sees his body uh decomposing once he sees his body decomposing says I guess I'm no nowhere to be here okay and he doesn't come back to the body anymore that's why the in the first three days of a loot of mourning is the most serious three days. Okay, there's a difference between the first three days and seven days, people don't always know. If a person has to work, we you're not a person's not allowed to work the whole seven days. But in a case of need, he can't make money in this. So the first three days we tell him still no. And then last four days with the head of a rabbi, he's allowed to. Okay? If he asks a rabbi, sometimes he's allowed to work if it's necessary. Absolutely necessary. The first three days is very serious because that's still the mish is still there. Everything's there. Okay? That's the uh first uh 3 days. Then number the fifth stage is during the seven days which of course we sit sha everybody sits shiva during those seven-day periods because that is when the nama is going back and forth from the house. Okay? That's why we sit in the house and we really speaking you're really supposed to sit in the house of where the person lived okay of where the niffar lived. The reason is because guess what? That's where he's hanging out right now. For the first seven days, a little bit spooky. For the first seven days, the nama of this person who's not alive is still in the house. Still in the house. Okay? And that's why we try to do he goes back and forth this and that. That's what he does till 30 days. There's something that's called that will have a separate on the first till 30 days means the body actually goes through a certain pain. could be with rem with worms and this and it could three other things. You don't want to get too detailed about these things but uh we'll have a separate show on whatever is considered a painful thing that a person goes through but we'll also speak about ways to get out of it. Okay, there are discount ways to get out of one plus one as they say right if you there's different ways to get out of um uh out of it. I'll give you one off the bat that protects you from and many of the onim is the mild writes that every people don't know the good school to know if you could try to do it it's hard every he says you should give a number of coins doesn't say how much the value of the coin has to be I guess you can you know get 10 a I don't know says the number of coins parallel to your name Which means if your name is Davidid, let's say coincidentally. Okay. So dal is four, v is six and daled is four. So it's 14. 14. Yeah. I got off cheap. Yeah. Some people have like then you're in trouble. I don't I I don't think um Yeah, I guess so. Yeah. Yeah. I don't know. I don't know. I'm not sure. I'm wondering I know. I'm wondering if is nine or 90. I'm not sure. Could be. It's 90. I don't know. You're right. I don't I don't know how you're going to get with a 90. I don't know how you can do that. Huh. Yeah, that's that's pretty high. You're right. [Laughter] More than him. Yeah. No, it could be. You only I think what I saw is I'll double check, but I think it's only the first number of that thing. You understand what I'm saying? So, I think nine three would be nine of 90. That's what it is. I'm pretty sure that's what it was. And it's not that value of that thing. You just and you just take the uh the number of coins and you give it for it data. But he says you have to separate into seven seven. Let's say in my case I had 14 coins. Not so bad. 14 coins. You separate into seven divisions. Works out perfectly. Two two two two and you give it in seven different places. Two two two. You separate into two things and it saves you from the seven madurat of ganam. And so he says helps to protect every that's the way to do it. And that's what it is. I'll double check your your tweeting. I forgot I forgot makes it divisible. Anyways, that's the stage of Kev which happens during the first 30 days of a person after he isar which is obviously painful. That's where we're very mak to do shiva and kadesh and everything like that. You know the by the say they say the should be all of you together with that. Okay. We see something else that's not relevant. But uh that's that's what the say but the is even if there's only one person sitting you still say you don't say you you speak plural all of you. So the question is why would you say all of you when there's only one person sitting shiva there's only one person sitting shiva why would you say the answer is what what's the answer because you're bring the spirit that's sitting there also right next to him okay the spirit is there in the house the the I don't like the word spirit but I'm just trying to use English word the nama that's sitting there in the house spirit is a lousy word what the nisha everyone knows who is right it's okay yeah nisha is right the nama that's sitting there next to them also in the house during those seven days also being to a certain extent which is realizing that things are changed. Okay. from 30 until the year. That of course we know is why we say kadesh for the whole year is because the person has to go through what we call mishbet ganam he has to go through ganam hopefully most people get a discount people go to shirim on shabas when it's hard to get out from the house they get a special discount they don't go they don't have to do all these things rightem including the wives including the but uh but that's that's why David can just give me more How many years after can we do stop after a year? They don't give up. They never give up. Speaking, it's a little bit weird that we that we always do it. After the 12 months, there's no the more you're doing it. This guy's a big rush. You're going to keep. Yeah. No, that's something else that we'll speak about. The idea is until 12 months there's what you're saying is true but in in a certain context the the 12 months is um is the amount of time that you have that a person can go to get him and ku that's a maximum except a person's a real proper Russia he can get lasted but the worst worst worse has a full 12 months so that's why we say kadesh almost until four months because of we only do 11 months you skip a week and continue to the end because the reason holds you should do all 12 months the reason holds you better be careful and you should do all 12 months in order to do it then you can do it. So the problem with doing it, it sounds like a rush is to do the whole 12 months because you make it sound like you got a full sentence. You understand? That's the problem. But after that, you're already he's in the the kadesh that's far do afterwards just to raise more levels. Not necessarily because we always What's the point in doing it every should take a break. What's the point in doing? No, the yard site is something else. Please speak about that. Okay. The yard site is something very important on the yard site on the day that he comes the nama comes back to the we're going to speak about all these things separate but the nama comes back to the keu there and he every time people say kadesh from on that it raises him he goes up higher he gets a little bit of a higher you know sometimes and there are different levels not everybody's on the same level how do you know that the de has reincarnated so many times what's the point okay I understand what I'm saying you know You don't have to when we speak about reincarnation there's about 10 or 20 questions on reincarnation there hundreds of Benkai is a whole book almost full of questions on what this thing what happens so believe will speak about reincarnation is a known Russia a known Russia so it depends what kind of Russia is but it could be you're saying for sure 12 months for sure he's 12 months you're saying if he's a proper Russian is a Russia that you know that he had 12 months and it could be sometimes you could do Another option is it's our problem is mainly for a child to do it for his father for 12 months because it's not it's not nice but if he's a known Russia first of all there's and second of all if he really wants to he can get someone to do the last month if he wants you get someone else to do it you know it's an option okay that's the 30 days of and then finally after all these steps and this from 12 months in depending on who you are depends on who you are and how great you are. over then he goes up to what will have a few sh about what it looks like what cloud which puffy cloud it's up over there in cloud n and uh the status of it like says um and actually brings down sometimes he even could come down to the world speak about that also he could have some connection to the world to certain extent but the person is in enjoying himself and waiting for the there's no such thing as like you said for certain Rashe proper there is now this is a little bit there are some people which we say officially don't get a someone who someone who's or things like that officially according to the world that's it they're finished they're not going to get they lost it but you should know surprisingly enough like they say for he writes about this they know that everyone's going to get there some one way or the One way or the other, everyone gets the ticket inside of there somehow. Unless I don't know, there must be some exceptions. But Buran, he says almost everybody makes it even I think he even says even the worst even even really bad people. No one knows the Misha says calls from and all these things. Nobody knows that part. That's what I'm saying. It's not so simple. But that everyone gets it. Okay, that's the uh things in a nutshell. Also, I'll just quickly tell you if we're already speaking about the dim that a person passes during that time is at the time that he passes away. That's one there in front of they announce everything that this person did. This we'll see in action. We'll see how that happens. Also when the very what people don't know is when he goes into the kev when a person is lowered into the kev into the grave over there he's that's where he's getting transformed into the other world and over there is all the things that can go ket that's why in there's a min that the children don't follow after the uh the the the met right after the deceased and nobody Nobody knows why I want to follow after the M. The reason why is because the reason why is because when a person goes down into the kever so then all all the bad stuff comes out and number one on the thing is if he spilled any seed okay if he spilled any seed improperly now as again I don't want to get too in detail because it get quite scary this stuff but they say any improper seed that was spilled or something like that is another nishama another person that gou is hitting the person over the head is another mashit like a a an angel of of um I don't know if the words are you know what I'm talking a destroying angel you said destroying right like a destructive angel that goes against a person so because of that it's a very dangerous thing and we say that we don't the other kids there that are there ku with all his brothers who are causing problems so it makes it could be a very muck forzik so the meaning is that children don't follow after the met because it's a very at the time of lowering the grave people don't realize that's a very big time that's when he's already going to shan and that's when the ku games start that's when the kichu games start that's when the danger that's why you'll notice also in the near-death experiences a lot of times like I said we'll quote a number of them no one ever they start some as we'll see speak about a bait or they speak you know they're speaking did you do this did you do that there is such a thing but most of them feel as they say gishmak most of them are feeling okay they see margua there's nothing cuz these guys never got in the grave they made it back. You understand? So there's only so much information you can get from these people because they ended up coming back. The people who died that would be the great information. But you know Kim ton as they say we can't do anything. You can't get you can't get those people what they keep. They keep right that's it. They're quiet. They're not telling us what they would happen. But that's where you get the real information saying the the real details of den we can only read in the zor and their because we're not going to get it from the people that came back. Why was such a rush to to see the body suffering? Uh, no. The the body suffer because it's in a it's in a it's in a limbo until it gets down to the core. It wants it. It's like, you know, it needs it to be able to purify itself. It needs to get there. So, the longer you take, the more it's in limbo. Where am I? What am I doing? The nama stays with a goof and it's very frustrating. It's very annoying. Has no closure, no closure, right? No satisfaction. It's way look nobody wants the punishment, but you want the punishment when you know it's a means to hopefully getting to where you're supposed to go. You know what I mean? Say again. It's been a huge line. Actually, what I just said about not following the camera very quickly. No, no, no. I'm talking about the following the kids don't follow the the body. Why is that not universal? You're saying it should be a reason. I don't know. That's a good question. I don't know. I mean, I was in Cabo I think based from the The vilon said to do it and these minogim came to you based on the vilon. So that's where it happened. Why don't we take it on? I don't know why not don't do it here and they wouldn't accept it anyways. They get very frustrated. People get very annoyed about it and they say, "Okay, over here we're all we don't have to stick with the Jo have to do like the Jo in Rome do like the Romans is right." Not so simple. Well, look, if he wants to, he can break a min, but it's a pretty strong M. I've only once. I'm talking about only during the Levia. I'm not talking about in general. What? I'm only talking about during the Levia. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. So, the the weas and the the the son wanted to go saying no. I said no, we don't hold with that. Ah. And the son came. Okay. To the Okay. I hear. Okay. Yeah. No, it could be he holds it. There's one two option. Okay. Said, you know, I'll double check that. I'm wondering if he holds his min his mig in England where they do do it. That's my suffic cuz I think are pretty much better at this also. I'm pretty sure, but I'll double check. Okay. Anyway, so let's just finish up. That's the when a person goes in the kev. Then there's which, which we spoke of before. There's the Okay. Hopefully one doesn't experience that. There's ganamah is the worms in the kev. There's ganum which I'm sure everybody knows what that word means. And then if a person doesn't make it properly he doesn't get a pure purification. So then this is also a subject we'll speak about a couple sharim. He's a ruach in the world. He floats around in the world. If a person that's the one of the most painful experiences for a person to have is not to make it upstairs at least to gam let him go to gam at least so he can go to gam so eventually get to ganed. if he doesn't even get to that because there's certain things they used to do. Sometimes he'll have to come back as an that's floating around in this world. Okay. And that there are many stories of what we call call in Hebrew we call in English what we call ghosts. Okay. But are poltergeists, right? Poltergeist which are truth stories. There's no question. It's very hard to deny them also. Again, we'll bring some stories about that also in order to show the point. Like a dip. Like a Oh, no. Deep duplicates. It's the same idea, but it's different, right? It's what happened over there is a little bit different, but he's also It's the same idea of a spirit who's floating around here, but he's trying to take advantage of someone to finish the job already. He got to get out of here, right? He's sick of being in the hell. So, he cleans in someone's body and he's trying to use him as his apparatus to try to get himself upstairs. Okay. So, that's uh that's that du can kill someone if he goes inside a ver can really kill someone. believe we'll speak about dbukim also why not we're having fun anyway so you might as well speak on it we'll try to get to we'll try to get to all them okay these are the different din and the different steps of what happens I told you oh 9:00 I didn't realize give me till 9:05 I'll stop at 9:05 okay I basically told you I'm going to speak about 30 days before before death which the zora brings a part of basically more or less he says that 30 days before um 30 days before someone dies begining. Okay. It says that 30 days before there's they say so and so is going to die in 30 days. Finished. We've got him. Okay. We've got the cat in the bag as they say. Okay, we have them. And what's interesting he brings and even the off even the birds will speak about it that say what it is now that sounds weird how the birds know but there's a real story and it's interesting to know it's so funny I finished writing this I remember the gar just from something and then one time I was listening to a radio station about certain Torah and brought the same story mish different context it was on the parak he brought the same uh same same gumar basically says when got his he got his intelligence He knew everything and he knew the of the birds also what they speak and what they talk we all hear them talking they definitely have some conversations over there and he knew that also so there was a guy who told me listen man I got to know what they're saying it sounds so good you know so interesting tell me what teach me the language just teach me the language I'm very good at languages I've gone to I know six languages so teach me the seventh I'll learn the bird language it's a big deal said no way Jose I'm not I'm not teaching you this thing he knew all the langage I said Jose because he was in New Mexico also. Anyways, the guy said I got to know I got to know to I got to know. I really pushed back goes back and forth but he said it's not it's dangerous for you. He said no. Said please taught him the language of the birds. So he learned the language of the birds. And you know what? One guy one time the guy gets up in the morning. He's got this new uh fancy trick up his sleeve. He goes and he listens to the birds. They say that the crops are all going to go bad this year. It's going to it's very bad. The birds are telling each other how bad the crops could be a very bad season for crops. The guy doesn't plant any crops. He goes somewhere else. He plants somewhere else and this it makes a bundle. Everybody else loses money. He's making a bon money. This guy's doing fantastic. Another thing that another time it says that there's going to be a fire in a certain place and fire blah blah blah this that. So he invested duff in a different place than that. You know these guys know the stock market but right wall street they know exactly where they could they're all telling each other where to where to go right there birds. Yeah, that's why everybody in in the Wall Street are a bunch of bird brains, right? Makes sense, right? That's how it works. So, all the especially the ones that are making all the money, right? This is the mccor I'm saying, right? Anyway, so he was doing well three four years. The guy was a multi-millionaire. Fantastic. He was doing great and stuff like that. Okay. And starts the fifth year. He wants to hear what they say. So, here's the bird saying. They say, "Plon blooney, the name of this guy is going to die this year. 30 days he's dead. He's finished. He's all washed up." He's like, "One second, what do I do now?" He goes back to He goes, "What's going on?" He told, "I told you. I warned you. It's your fault. You used up all your You listen to them. What do you And you know, you use up, you were supposed to lose here, lose here. You're supposed to get certain you serum over here. You serum over here." And you would had a nice long life. Here you are. You used up. This is the macor for this idea of selling seven years to the devil. And then eventually you get that same idea. Same idea. You you decided to sell yourself in and that's it. And now that's it. You can. But how do I change this? You can't. You heard them say that there's nothing to change. So I'm just saying that like the zor that we're bringing out here that the even the birds that's the birds themselves start telling the person that it's going to uh happen for those full 30 days. That's what happens. And uh and and that's what it is. He just feels that what they say what's brought down there. He feels a certain lack of of command of his body then is slowly dissipating from his body. He can't control his ruach. So sometimes like you said 30 days before a person can go I don't say bananas but a person can lose his or can do things that are weird or unusual because a person's not in control of himself. I've heard of myim that I heard from someone else that said that there are many that can tell you that there are people that come and they decide to write a will. Why? cuz I don't know I just have this feeling or whatever you know that certain heart gasha that something's going on or they had a dream that was showing that or something sometimes accurate some but a lot of times they had a certain accuracy to it that not soon after writing that will they found themselves not alive anymore but sometimes a person gets certain feelings and that's where where it's come to why is that enough coming why is that relevant for us because writes in his that because of this reason during those 30 days which okay we can't all know we can't I guess he got scared they can't know what the 30 days are. He says that's a time to improve in uh in uh in in yourself. Okay, that's a time he says during those 30 days a person can correct his whole life. If a person you have to know those 30 days but if it would be he can correct his whole life because those 30 days are parallel to every day in his life. If he's able to be do what's right things like that um then it would be then it would be okay. Obviously, none of us usually know when that is. Some of us simple people don't know these things. But all that sadikim always knew like it was brought in the mid rabba. I'm almost finished. Okay, almost two more minutes. We'll be finished. When Arin was nif, we all know Elazar sat there and he told him, "Okay, now it's time to go." He had to lie down and he told him, "Close your eyes. Close your eyes. Take he did everything appropriately because Arin knew exactly when you would die." which we'll be quoting a lot also throws in a lot of things in part on the when he says says what does it mean that he went to bed okay or he felt this or Mosha was on his way out so says I'll peep he said I'll peep they felt sick they felt oh this is it I know I'm not going to last anymore I'll peep that's what he says says I'll peep what we're saying No, he says no. During the time before the pet of a person, he knows that he's going know exactly what's going on. They are in touch with their body. So 100%. So they don't they know exactly I know the day and this tells them and they know and they know it's exactly the time of the seven days and that's what it means. Um that's what it says. He says 40 days, 30 days, whatever it is. But they all tell you what it is. I saw a nice Michelle to this. Why is this so? First of all, because since they did everything on Hashem, they never did anything without Ku consulting Hashem. So, Hashem consults with them. Hashem tells them, you should know, guess what? It's time to go. Okay? I don't know if he asks them permission, but he tells them, you know, and he consults with them. That's first of all, but he says also similar because we know is that if you don't have a contract, if you're a renter and you don't have a contract, then can throw you out, but he has to give you 30 days notice. I'll pay you to give 30 days notice. So, brother, who's giving you 30-day notice? Guess what, buddy? I gave you I rented your body for you for 70, 80, 90 years, and here's your 30-day notice, you know, enjoy yourself. Take advantage of your last 30 days of the house. You can start looking for a new renter. Okay? That's that's what they use in reference to Jacob, in reference to Moshe. So, that's how these people do it and able to know uh what it is. Okay? That's where it comes from. There's one other new I'll save it for next time, which refers to the over here. We have an idea called the salm which is the image of a person. A person has a certain image. That image is an imitation of who you are up in shamine. Everybody has a parallel you up in sham. We all have a twin brother. Some of us really have a twin brother. But right we have a twin upstairs that is an image of you that is a spiritual image that is up in Shabb and that is a lot of things in the only thing I could the best mushel to make you understand that is when you look in the mirror when you look in the mirror and go hey that's me right but that's not you come on break the mirror it doesn't but it looks like you and it walks like you moves like you has image but we all know it's a spiritual it's not a real you it's a facade it's a fake it's a image this image it's called a telm it's called a telm in kabal The idea of is very high levels and there's a lot of ideas behind it. But this is something that's real. It's existent. Okay? Which I'll speak about next time. But it's something that's up in that is what keeps you parallel in this body. Okay? When a person leaves that is removed from him that parallel and it goes up. That's what happens. So they say just for one mush they say by and we all know we were all at our we all all of all all of us around all were there but the real specific thing means our was there that of each and everyone was at arena everybody was really there as our that image that we have that imitates us that that's what's going to come back that was what there's a lot more examples and I didn't finish explaining what this is I just gave you a little bit for next week okay so continue next week at the normal.