Yom Kippur: Incredible Insights and Lessons for Life

broken too much dedicated him and his family should be successful in everything they do we're going to talk a little about and then Indiana Yom Kippur was some great production s that is a school of a memory if you learn and review learn and review learn and review 101 times you won't forget your learning the big difference between a person who learned a hundred times and one who learns 101 the one who learned 100 times is considered as if he didn't serve his creator like brings a person for that one who learns 101 times he is considered one who served the ship and he will have memory we have a rule there's nothing that's nothing where does it say that they are that you have to learn and review 101 times 100 is just not enough is there any hint to that in the Toyota itself foreign [Music] that's 100 because you only learned 100 times so then you feel it you don't have it it's empty it's not in your hands if you want to learn and you want to retain what you learn again and again and again 101. however there are shortcuts in many places that certain number Ryan would hear they were so excited they wanted to remember it so they reviewed it again and again 40 times and then as if it's in their pocket so what is it 40 times or 101 the marriage feels that if you learn by yourself you have to learn 101 times but if you learn with a partner you learn better only 40 times only 40 times and the stapler says that if you teach to others it's counted as 20 times say that when you write what you learn writing equals four times so not so hard to get to 40 or even 101 . admittation we should learn and remember everything that we learn Ed writes that during these days of Cloudy soil is to pursue everybody does this that's the right thing to do we always do it throughout the year but more so during this these days again we have a rule everything is in the Toyota where does it say in detail that between you should pursue what does it say that available he brings apostle from partial person said DACA because now it's going to be decided whether you're going to live or not but when is the letters valve yeah in the six days of teacher that between Australian people we have 10 days but four out of them you can't give to Dhaka two days of Rosh Hashanah Shabu Shiva and your keeper itself so you have six days that you have to pursue sadaka and has said why let you because that's going to make sure that you tilt the scales in your favor and you will live well foreign [Music] foreign the defense attorney on our behalf it doesn't work like that says again it brings us from the premium that if that's the case this doesn't apply to Levine it doesn't apply to women because Olivia and the women did not sin in nearly they can wear golden jewelry on Yom Kippur it's a pellet because he holds that wound the levim and the women are also included and they should not okay for some reason decided just to bring the first part and he lives with a question mark the VM and women are exempt and they can wear golden jewelry I think it's a tremendous finish sure that depends you can carry a watch on Shabbos if it's jewelry so then you can if it's a low that you're carrying then you can there are many who are strict regarding watches carrying watches and shopping because of a over issue it depends on them we do view a watch as a as a jewelry our watch at home if you ask the prime kaneevski who comes in the name of the khazoni she will tell you 99 of the POI scheme do not hold like that but according to reply what's that that's exactly what the crime used to say to people who came to him take it off put it in your pocket and if when people would come to him he would always say are you a man or a woman why are you asking you have a watch like a woman take it off they say put in your bucket oh now you're a man he was hoisished to the khazonish who helped it's a bigot issue in fact I once came to him with the fellow from Australia we go inside this Raider for people wearing watches I used to usually warn the people coming with me you know the prime doesn't like watches because if he tells you take it off you have a problem but this time either I forgot I didn't see it like I had a long long sleep we come in and the prime picks up immediately system foreign look at me what did I do wrong I said do you have a watch I said yeah take it off but he starts taking it off sometimes says put in your pocket he says he puts it in his bucket the prime says good six months later we come back so I say to him do you want to ask the prime a question I said just the brackets he says I don't have any questions I said yes you do come I'll show you what question you have so we go inside I celebrate I was here six months ago with this fellow and you told him to take off his watch and he was my Captain but now he has a shadow since you hold it's a big Edition he wants to know it's a manly watch produced by men for men can he give it to his wife can he give it to his daughter and if you say yes you're not worried now that the woman is now holding a man's garment a crime system yes but then he pauses he looks at me he says you can also wear it as like oh what did I do wrong he looks at me and says to Megan and he cracks up laughing back to young people fresh you test a tremendous Swedish in the levus he says is to extend it and other songs and praise and young people why tremendous Swedish because they are instead of eating and drinking of other yummy foreign foreign and only then because it doesn't it doesn't work and he explains why because Toyota has three Milos first of all it's an it's kind to those who cling to it and those who holds on to it is hold on holding on to life the second thing is because it cancels yet so if you really want to do truva you have to do something to fight you you Etc what's the best advice and for a third reason because an Aveda that one does does not put out the fire of Toya he should concentrate on learning Toyota yeah and we turn to each other and we said and therefore esteem judges I Turn to You with the following question during these days right so listen what happened a guy did Kappa was foreign a ton a ton of chickens there so the guy took a chicken done a goal and he took it and he did what he needs to do above his head three times and he said the right things but then the there was so busy so I figured I'll wait a few minutes be less of a line and then I'll go over it he sat down and started learning Spanish for some reason the chicken wasn't into his missionaries so the chicken ran back they hang out with all his friends saw the other chickens oh oh now we have a problem if you hear that among these chickens is one that already had a Kappa would you take a chicken from this guy you wouldn't so this guy wants to know does he have to pay for all the chickens that are there because this guy is not going to be able to sell even one now does he have to do this or not it's his responsibility he was learning but he didn't watch over that were still not sold where it was still not given over to people for kapowas so now nobody's going to want to take one does he have to pay for everything oh battle below tell me like this never um which is something which is important is not canceled in the majority if we learn not everything is canceled notified of the majority something which is the majority realize the reason that chicken is not willing to cooperate and say it's me it's me it's me if there was a semen you if there was a semen we don't have a question but I came to you with this question because the question is here because there is no semen he has to pay for everything cost him a lot of money that's a real coupler you don't know which one it is he ran and mixed with all the other chickens now what are you gonna do would you want to buy a chicken that somebody else did with who knows how many others he casted on their chicken you would I think you're unique you know why you're saying he would because he has nowhere else to do it's just a technical thing but most people are worried who told you proves differently a person who has a lady who's pregnant how many chickens did she take why a family has ten how many children they take for each person with a coin but what about the chicken the minute used to take one per person half so there's five thousand chickens and he only has to pay for 2500. because he wrecked it for the owner nobody's going to want to buy from him chicken he was no no he did cut powers for himself and then he wanted to go to the shower but there was a big line he said no wait a few minutes he sat down and he said to him nothing I'm familiar with not that I'm familiar with it no the children all says it's brought down himself doesn't like it but the Rama brings that that is I mean and even start him do it per person whose responsibility was that this chicken is an athletic one and it hopped over the fence but it's because this guy didn't time up he wasn't watching of him he was sitting and learning missionaries [Music] were chickens to do it per person foreign so you can put more money aside and use the same coin but you're putting more more money per person it's not the same money that goes for everybody so basically it's the same idea you can but those of chickens also are different if you go here if you go to the usual if you go to New York if you go to South Africa Mr has a different value there's no set amount it's a question about this because there's something causes someone else when I was a loss then perhaps we view this as a kosher meaning it's an old Mini everybody does it it's true that ashes we do it the guy who did it definitely holds it's the right thing to do everybody in outside in the street who wants the bite also holds that it's true we're not all the people who hold it it's not buyers is only going to be ending up he's only going to buy a Suffolk capara chicken but the problem is nobody's going to want to do this so you caused the person who sells a tremendous loss when people know this nobody's going to come close except the person who has no no veros he's just doing a technical you know technical thing oh what happens [Music] so there's no problem but everybody saw there was a big commotion what happened what happened why are you jumping what happened and now everybody knows and once everybody knows nobody's gonna bite and again you're trying to defuse the question and I want to answer the question brings it's really the remain does not nullify the majority is clearly says it does nullify in the majority that should be enough but that's also not going to help us because people Le Maise are still going to be worried even if you tell them you know it nullifying the majority you can take that take any chicken here people are not gonna like it so it's not gonna help us but that one does when he does kapowers only takes place the time of you can do this not three times three hundred times you still don't have the Capra until the actual srita the language of the sugar suggests that because the language is foreign but if you checked it correctly that's where the tikkun takes place nothing really happened here he ran away from him but there's no copper in this chicken yet and in fact he can come to the owner and say you owe me money because I never did the capella that I pay you for when does the actual capara that you said this should be instead of me when does it take place only at the time of srita so until then there's nothing nothing happened here yeah we did it for the first one and then the same Chicken on the second person no we were worried about what people are going to feel oh they're not going to want to touch it so we explain listen as long as there's no shrita there's nothing going on here nothing the actual is only going to take take care of the kapaga after you do the srita not before that so you're worried that somebody else use it don't worry he's gonna use another chicken everybody needs another chicken so the actual it's not when you do this and you think we wrote it Circle it around your head it's only at the time of srita yeah right right last few minutes of his life who is the shita going to take care of the last one the middle one the first one everybody since the minute is one per person you have to do this over your head once with this chicken and check this chicken it fixes you not everybody else those last few minutes what do you think he is busy doing what will you do if your name is last few minutes after 120 years of a life full of commitment dedication service to Hashem how do you end your life I'm not talking about the fact that he wrote 13 seeds later in the last day last few minutes what would you choose to do foreign but that probably he finished five minutes before now we'll talk about the last five minutes the last five minutes of his life so cool that's not automaticist listen to a language unbelievable they came and they say to him he said oh big fight that's going on between and then they come to him and they say listen again it's time that's it is all and says to them they calls you some sorrow I cause you some pain please be my help asks forgiveness from response so many times I forgive you as well the last two minutes in his life to ask forgiveness and to forgive anyone else it's a message for us that's what we should be involved with we should view as if as if it's the last few minutes of your life what would you do be like Moshe ask forgiveness and forgive everyone else in fact listen to a language call Adam he's telling you instructions what to do call Adam everyone should kiss the hands of his father his mother as forgiveness of your parents and this is a great obligation imposed on any person foreign of his parents why between man and his fellow obligated us to go and ask forgiveness how much more so from your parents that no one is saved from this grave sin of not honoring them appropriately if this is a fool he's a fool he didn't ask so the parents have a new instruction they should forgive him and they should actually verbalize and say I am Michael to my son for everything he did for me to me and so too he says every person should give mahila to his wife what did she do says because she spent too much of your money Allah she took too much money I say maybe we can add even if the chicken was a little dry yesterday even for that you should be more and so too and he told me that as a love in town should go to him before him keep her and ask him forgiveness you see it from moishyabeno apparently that's the right thing to do it's like a moment that appears twice in shots [Music] those who hear their shame and they don't respond they are offended and they do not retaliate what are they called they are lovers so you are called if you are not strict with people if you're willing to be murdered you don't retaliate in a time of a fight which is very hard to do by the way there's a cute message what it says here foreign at the time of a fight Hashem so they should go out and fight they should be they should be mechanic for the sake of their in a humorous way but but the good more here is saying to us don't be strict why because the demon continues and says explain one who's not strict with others who says that's how I conduct my world you're not strict with others I'm not going to be strict with you so forget about him do it for yourself don't be strict with others the best thing is not to be offended but if you are offended just don't retaliate and you have a new title or you have a lover of Liberty it reminds me you know there was a very big campaign against all in the last 15 17 18 years of his life tremendous campaign against him wherever he went Billboards all kinds of things the guy was in charge of this campaign got married few years and didn't have kids and one day he sat down he did and he realized it's probably because I'm going against foreign he says you know there's a big campaign against you out there and I'm the one behind it I'm married a few years I don't have kids and I think it's because of that please say that you're motioned me yeah no problem no need don't worry about it don't worry about it he says I need to hear you say you're emotional me and every time he says I don't think I should be marketing he says why not it's because I think that you should get away what do you mean in a private advice please send me one or two embarrassments it's the greatest form of Medina is it better to lose an army is it better to lose a kid is it better to lose all your assets embarrassed let's give it all the kids great service time in system I think foreign to me a great service you guys all happy smiles he says okay and he starts walking out so every time he calls him back says listen I really hope it did me a favor but do me a favor don't do these favors to anyone else maybe someone said there's a person that we say I'm saying erases it but some said in most of those God niplana Hashem as opposed to um there's two types of if you do have to sin if you did Sin what is it what is better to sin with is too against your friend so it's still for the price of one and who says your friend will forgive you so when the yet comes and tries to tempt you says if you're already falling I'm sorry he forgives you between the Mysteries between you and your friend Aleppo who knows if he's going to forgive me did happen you have to make sure to say I am sorry so for 24 hours and change we don't eat why don't we eat on Yom Kippur comes a remarkable calculation and it proves that you have to make sure that you don't eat because that's gonna fix all the time that you do it throughout the year how does that work how long does a person eat for two minutes wait you take more you take longer it's Beatles man same Services two minutes says a person eats twice a day well let's do math if you eat twice a day each one is two minutes that's four minutes a day how many days in a year 364 and you'll keep it on it 364 and we're definitely using 364 and that's 354. because every 19 years there are seven leap years so the solar and the lunar year come together and they might say we're back at 364 because the leap year brings it to 384. so it adjusts and it balances at 365 minus Yom Kippur you don't eat so 364 days times four minutes a day is how many minutes 1456 minutes that you eat a year great how many days how many hours how many minutes are in Yom Kippur Yom Kippur is 24 hours that's 1440 minutes we're still missing how many minutes it's 1456 minutes a year that you're eating there are 1440 minutes and 24 hours so how many minutes are you missing 16 minutes the tool holds that we had is two-thirds of a meal the rambam home that it takes you 24 minutes to walk a meal so what's two-thirds of 24 16. perfect we had 440 minutes of 24 hours we have to add to safety Yoma that's 60 Minutes that brings it up to 1456 that's exactly the time we ate throughout the year so by not eating for 400 1456 minutes right you fix all the wrong doings a few days throughout the year of eating and that's why we don't eat for Yom Kippur what's that yeah but nothing is a level you can eat foreign like the first like the three the three meals of Shabbos itself and therefore the Naf Kamina he says if you have to choose between because that's a complete obligation learning from Apostle is a very hush of a thing and kidai to do but not on the same level of the three meals and Shabbos which we learn from Pastor every single time it says we learn three meals don't you think you need to rectify that and if one does that without all the appropriate cabanos he did it not for the sake of him did it for the sake of his stomach doesn't that require some kind of a rectification so you fast for 24 hours and you fix that you don't wear leather shoes so that leads us to ask a riddle about shoes when is it that we say to a person you should wear your right shoe and your left foot you should wear your left shoe on your right foot even though normally we try not to do that because you can forget your Toya has the power to cause you to forget so we don't like to do that but is there a time that we actually suggest to people now you should wear your left shoe and your right foot your right shoe on your left foot in Reverse we don't wear shoes uh the Shadow from a few months ago not only now we know that it doesn't have any sins that's why you can use somebody else's chicken from kapowos now we also know that his memory evolved Russia remembers of we asked here in the winter so no uh you allowed to wear shoes on shoppers I hope you do the answer is we learn everyone is allowed to wear shoes sandals if there's scorpions and he's afraid there are snakes on the way it's going to protect him he's allowed to the Rama adds if it's rainy and he wants to go from his house to the school and he's an Eastern East he can't walk without it he can't the mishnabua writes those people who have permission to wear leather shoes as soon as that danger or is that reason finished they must take them off he gives another example you want to go to the bathroom and you know you're gonna get your feet dirty you're allowed to wear leather shoes but immediately take them off and then the mishnabua says all these people who got permission to do it however today so they should wear their left shoe on their right foot and their right shoe on their left foot and that's the answer to our question another riddle normally the kids come to show with candies and some shoes Agape gives candies to the little kids when is it that tagabai gives candies to the adults he hands out candies to the adults do you ever see this in jewels the Gabe comes and he skips over the kids he goes to the adults and gives them candies give him medicine why do you give me candy adults foreign goes around and gives candies to all the adults and shoes and each one who receives the candy should say if the decree is on me that I am gonna get money from that Sedaka I should be oyster with this candy throughout the year I'm not gonna have to collected was swallowed by the fish what did he lose when he came out did he lose anything you know it's all by the fish it comes out the same way that he came in sorry because of the intense heat that was there he lost all his hair the hair on his head and the hair of his beard so Yona comes in with hair on his head and beard but he comes out without it so he lost his hair well he spent some time there is a very difficult Mitzvah that we all have to fulfill this coming Sunday very difficult it's called eating you mentioned it before you have to eat an Arabian people and the camera says if you do it on the ninth it is counted as if you fasted on the knife and the tip what can you do what don't you do for college we have to do this tough mitzvah if one of the reasons that we do this is to be able to fast tomorrow so what about a sick person that the doctor said you're not allowed to fast he's not going to faster does he also have to eat an arivian keeper what about a woman a woman has to fasten Yom Kippur we know that but eating on the ninth is a positive commandment which is time-bound they are yeah it's good good let me say both the same person and the woman have to eat but it's an interesting Suffolk that both were going with when does this obligation start as soon as you get up in the morning you dive in and then you have to start eating or from the night normally Arrow days start from the night shabbat starts Friday night that's a start job this morning so when do you have to start eating what do you do with Slickers some say a very long Slickers and some make it very short the reason for those who say it short because it's ayonto because they don't have started already from the night started from the night you also have to start eating from night time but they both says one should not get married on Sunday why not what's your problem with Sunday because you have to worry about the big suit that you have 600 people who are coming this is maybe he's going to Sheikh and Shabbos wait a second if you can't get married for that reason on Sunday so if there's a Yom keeper that falls on a Monday maybe we should push it off to Tuesday why because every interviewer has an interview if Yom Kippur is on Monday that means on Sunday there's a mixer to eat even when there's a Mitzvah we are worried that you're gonna Shabbos so when you keep your falls on Monday we should be also worried that on Sunday when you have to eat a soda you're gonna go shopping no there's a big difference a wedding you have 600 people coming you're very nervous you have to get up who knows when you're going to start preparing you have the whole day to shift what's the big deal for you and your family you see from the fact that the mother didn't say that the Mitzvah starts which means this year you see that the Mitzvah only kicks in Sunday morning however the acronyms do say that there is an Indian to start eating an erive this year that it falls and what's the shop is you get two for the price of one you get that Mitzvah or whatever it's called a bonus half a Mitzvah and the Mitzvah of America when is the best time to buy an Esso either before you keep or afternoon keeper what why that's building the Suka and Elsa build the sugar young people fine when should one buy another two weeks before half a minute before we know the prices drop ship won't buy a Nestle brings the shame you should buy the Esso after Yom Kippur because according to the amount of tears that you shared during the davening and Yom Kippur that are beautiful your essence will be it will clean it from all the stains and he says I but if you've got an Esso from somebody a week before him what are you gonna do store it don't look at it keep it wrapped up nothing well you keep it and and all your tears will wipe off all the dirt all the stains that this Esso may have and according to your the beautification of the Fila will be the beautification of your tremendous tradition says Sarah lived for 127 years what does it means they're all equally good asks wait a second this language appears also by this one how can you say that says yes because a new entity and it fixes everything you did in the past and the mindset comes out this is a person who's not as bad as Ishmael which is unbelievable foreign doesn't really fix everything if you nullify the positive commandment and he banks really well so he's immediately atoned for no problem but it's a negative commandment it depends some of it was required not only young people foreign is completed and he says I don't know where he got it from the language of does not indicate what the says this is all talking about children the lower level of Chua when you do it out of fear you're right it doesn't fix everything but when one does it fixes everything even the worst are various that normally we would say you need is also says even though I don't know where he got it from he brings it from the morning but it's not what the Shah says however since he was alive and he passed in like this here in based in that's how they pass in and Beijing I'm sorry Dominion that even donors of a person turned into serious does that mean you completed the kapara process they took the Avera and they turned it into amazing but when one does something wrong he still needs to fix it it's to clean there's a little stay that's left over the availa left it's here but there's a little stain you have to fix that how do you clean that stain normally we would think Yom Kipper and for some of it was used and Misa says the same thing so you have a mirrors that's a very strong Coalition very strong Coalition and like the way they pass again down here based in sharmatta that's how they pass in and base a bunch of years ago I don't know six seven years ago there was a big fight between two groups of Arabs near Haifa young guys at one point one of the groups had a hand grenade and they threw it at the other group this grenade exploded right to her next to a 17 year old Arab kid his name was Yusuf we would call him Joseph he was rushed to the rambam hospital terrible shape and the doctors don't look at him and they say we have to amputate his arms his legs and take out his eyes he got so many shrapnel that just wasn't sure if he's going to be infected and he will surely die otherwise but there was one doctor there Dr Paz thinks and he said doctors I don't think we should amputate his legs and arms take out his eyes 17 year old to bring him back in a little box like this back to home where's and they say what do you suggest so he says I think we should work on it slowly but truly taking each little piece out I think it can be done and they weren't sure and Dr PA says I'll take it on myself I'll do it and they agreed and he did for the next three months he invested so much time day in day out days and nights and slowly with tremendous tremendous patience he took a little piece after little piece and ointments and he gives him such unbelievable treatment and after three months a miracle happened Yusuf is walking on his own two legs using his arms and seeing with his eyes and the following day he comes over to Dr Paz with a big gift that he's holding his hands he says here doctor if this is for you and Dr Paul says I don't need any gifts you are my biggest gift look at you you're using your own legs your arms you're seeing with your eyes I don't even get from you you are a walking gift no no doctor what you did for me you have to take this you have to take this no I don't need it please take it Olive six months later the intifada broke out it's major fights in other Dr Paz was drafted he's in reserve and at one point two Jews were hurt was rash there the doctor and he's treating them he's underground treating these two guys and suddenly he sees this guy coming over with a gigantic Rock in his hand he looks at the same looks at him he said looks at him oh yeah yeah doctor yeah how you doing no I apologize you know things are different now you know within the fire and everything you know and as he says things are different now he took this rock and he smashed it on the head of Dr pass was rushed to the rambam hospital he was out for a few weeks and then he had to go through hell months and months of rehab his face was completely destroyed distorted and he had surgery after surgery and so many different treatments and at one point when he was in the rehab his family came to visit and he told them you should know the pain that I Endure during these treatments the surgeries in comparison to the pain that I have every time I think about this Yusuf those legs that I gave him that he used against me the arms and I enabled him to use the eyes that I allowed him to see with again he took that and he used it against me in this thought is too hard to Bear I'd rather die every single time I think about it we think about this users Wicked traitor cruel there's no one here ever do such a thing yeah he says who gave you with the same arms with the same eyes you sin against him what's the big difference between us and Yusuf and the opposite when we use gave us to serve him how much is take those eyes those legs those arms their shoulders their digestive system whatever he gave you and you use it to serve them out of true recognition how much is there before Elizabeth goes and he hears a basket I'm saying not you everybody can do true you out so what device is the time against saying I don't want your children she said you know what the Titan against him is where was he when he heard this was he investment no if he stared in place of energy with your different voices he would hear the voice you were saying anyone can ever do it you can always do chuma and it will be accepted the problem is you start walking out the best Mothers you're going to hear all kinds of crazy voices and sounds saying all kinds of crazy things they died on him is don't spend time at a business because in those voices and all kinds of things you're going to hear May convince you to do crazy things stay in basement you're going to hear those beautiful sweet voice saying you can always do chuva in the chuva will be accepted I want to wish each and every one of you a full a year full of heavenly blessings abundance also want to ask if I said anything that I wasn't supposed to say or if I didn't say something that I was supposed to say it wasn't intentional please be invited me we should all enjoy many many more years to come with Superior health learn Italian foreign