Try a Different Route | Rabbi Gavriel Koskas

[Music] it doesn't work Rabbi it does not work you know how many times I had people come to me and tell me Rabbi I try my very best every time I decide I'm not going to look and it doesn't work the frustration in the people's face was strong so I decided to look for a solution I searched and I found a very big K and I would like to share it with you at the end of the there's a small called and over this says a very big I would like to read it to [Music] you watching things that one should [Music] not one has to pray for this one has to beg for help and this is a generality [Music] anybody who's trying hard and trying to control himself even from just the Gaze just from looking afterwards it will burn inside him like a firein has a very interesting concept that he'd like to share for many people to try to control ourselves in this area is very difficult so he says instead of trying to control yourself so much try a different route it's like L when you talk lash about someone it means that you have a bad view on that person so instead of working on the mouth work on your you on people try to judge other favorably he he says it's the same thing instead of trying to control our gaze he says let's try to reroute our interests pray to God from the heart and say Hashem I don't want to look because I don't want to be interested in that take for example we live in Miami on Collins Avenue there are beautiful cars that pass you have Bugattis you have Lamborghinis you have rolls-royces all the boys whenever they hear a loud noise they look and sure enough it's a beautiful car you going to see people women generally are not really so interested in nice cars so they're just not going to look which means that looking or not looking has to do with the interest to have of the item here says let's pray to deeply sincerely I do not want to have an interest over there it is not something I would like to pursue we pray from the heart Hashem helps [Music]