Ways We Can Prevent Ourselves From Wasting Seed

[Music] so some of the suggestions I could give people as far as some things that I've mentioned people privately but not an issuing to overcome this if a person has especially guys has a desire to do it Maura says seige my sign first that doesn't work go open a book start learning to off that doesn't work start thinking about this you or the shoe about genome it talks about what's gonna happen to you once you die sometimes even all those three things don't work so you could add some other things I'm going to mention do you know one thing is is that when a person gets hot the first thing you need to do is get yourself cold go right into the shower cold shower no hiding all cold shower sometimes this is going to be just enough to cool you off and you're gonna get back to normal so cold shower it is if that doesn't work then take your fingers and pinch yourself in a sensitive place in your body the back of your thigh the back of your arm don't call yourself damaged and bleeding it's not necessary just enough pain to stop and get yourself to think about something else now aside from that you have to also reward yourself for overcoming this not by buying yourself a new car every day but rather by writing a journal every day that you overcome it one day passes the next morning when you wake up after you do your prayers and everything else think about how good you feel that you overcame another day write down that good feeling in a journal one sentence five sentences whatever you need to describe yourself and describe that feeling why do you do this because you're going to need this book when the next time the yet side comes back and you're already going for 60 days for 90 days to six months for a year and a half it sounds not on vacation just because you're on vacation he's going to wait for you sometimes 20 years but if you're writing this journal for a long time you're easily come back sorry hold on it's thinking you know what you're making a lot of sense it's a lot but let me see all that second hold on I like what you're saying hold on a second it sounds good one second one jarrah wait but this makes more sense you make sense it's a table but your sense they're really pennies this is olives this is Millions why I remember how I felt on day number 18 day number 19 day number 61 day number 187 look I read it I read how I feel after all these times it's I want that feeling because I know how I feel after I listen to you a shame you have all of this opposite it's not worth it it's simply not worth it so you take yourself you write yourself a little journal that's another way that you can overcome this remind yourself constantly of everything we learned in this schooi I have all playlists on our YouTube channel on the website there's actually a tab that Sonny at Sadiq actually made for us called wasting seed why all of this you lame about wasting seed are over there you should be watching those shooting on a monthly basis man female child adult rabbi tell me everybody should be watching this shooting has nothing to do with me it's just easier to watch the show that's gonna give you 150 to 300 sources then go look at each individual source yourself and look for that one line that's gonna give you that your mind watch this um some of them are long some of them are short we should be watching the shooting on a regular basis the constant you remind yourself it's not worth it it's not enough to do it one time or two times or five times it's not enough you get it while you were single and now you stop when you were married by the way everybody thinks that this sin goes away once you get married is wrong in fact I have more people that are addicted to it that I'm trying to help then I'm married then the ones that are single marriage doesn't solve this problem like some people think oh no no just get married as soon as possible solve the problem it's not true it doesn't solve the problem number one you still have to deal with the fact that she's needed after half the month what are you gonna do I have many guys grown men tell me hi listen I do everything good but when she's need I can't take it that's the test you what do you mean you do everything good it's like saying I eat a chef as long as I'm in the house but suppose I go outside I don't need kachelle what but that's the test that's the test when you're out there when it's when it's tough that's the test so you have to have you out your mind you have to be scared to death you have to remind yourself of this stuff marriage is not going to fix that problem what's going to fix that problem is being afraid to lose everything your relationship with a sham or Lama ba or Lamas a your marriage your kids your kids are going to show me at home what's gonna happen to them what they're gonna be why because this is what you're doing to yourself you can't blame God for this you have a kid that's coming out with bald moom is missing something it's not a chef's fault nice result so you have to understand these things that are hard to hear are the only thing that's gonna protect us it's the only thing if you're not scared of your bleep you're not gonna treat it with respect you're gonna look at it whenever you want which brings me to the next point that I've actually it's helped many many people far beyond what you would think as I advised you to do what the W Donna C said and what he did in his life he was rabiyah kadosh was called the kudos because he never looked at his own bleeped not didn't touch it only he never looked at it why not look at it if you look at it you become comfortable with it so what do you do as far as to clean yourself you don't need to touch yourself to clean yourself first and foremost use a sponge that's not exactly expensive endeavor you go to this dollar store you get one for a dollar if you need we'll start a fund raiser for you to get the dollar okay get a sponge that's number one number two you don't need to actually touch the corona when you clean yourself so the reality is most people say no it's fine genic reasons you know yeah okay buddy I'm a guy also you don't need to it's not a problem same thing with women don't get comfortable with yourself don't get comfortable with yourself there's no reason to get comfortable you have to do your business clean whatever you need to clean of course their body is completely the opposite of ours but don't get comfortable with yourself all to make sure your kids I'm not comfortable with themselves I have little kids to share me I have little kids that have don't realize it's bad their parents let them do whatever they want and they have an addiction already before they 12 and then people ask why is it so many so much tragedy in the world there's so much tragedy because we're killing already without knowing you want to be holy you have to do things like this that are difficult and no one is ever gonna give you credit for it except the Shem why cuz no one knows you're doing it if you're looking for me to vote that everyone sees that's not gonna make You Sadiq that's not gonna make you righteous in fact it may be the opposite sometimes to be a real Sadiq to be Kadosh to be a holy person requires you to do things that you're not gonna get any credits from anyone except the shin the things that you're doing close rooms the things you do in the bathroom this a bow tie is extremely important for me so - no unfortunately we're left with only me to tell you you know but listen mcComish and Easter Easter wot Sh invited there was a thousand people saying the same thing and you wouldn't need to hear this you and I'll give you a shield that scares you in a different way but if that's what we have in this generation that's what we have awesome that we have a merit to do something but reality is should be a thousand rabbis screaming and crying their hearts out telling how me said to stop destroying themselves all these divorces all of the heresy all the atheism all of the conversions of different religions all of this Zionism communist mentality all of it starts with this we destroy our own bleeped with destroying our nation that's exactly what we thought we left behind in Egypt in last week's pawn shop we thought we left Egypt because Egypt was a symbolic of wasting seed Gilyard all of the sex crimes the reality is were just as bad today as we were back then but today we have information we have a solution you simply have to watch yourself there are different websites and apps they're gonna help guys watch their eyes if you know yourself that as soon as you look at something you soon as you look at somebody you're gonna have all types of thoughts they're gonna even lead you to a dream or something like that go on to websites that guard your eyes and some other similar websites but other Stan we're going to get a list of them they're going to publish soon one of the tubby team from Canada is putting a list together for us to publicize for people so you have different resources of how to watch your eyes the reality is some of these tools are useful for some people they're not useful father's because you can't have this software on some computers because you need it to work or otherwise the reality is is that you have to do everything you can to protect yourself but at the end of it all if you're not afraid to death nothing will help you I have one guy both of them that we helped and local shaman now I think he's going maybe two years already with it but he used to tell me listen I went to yeshiva I went to : I learned all day I learned this I did everything possible I didn't have a phone he said the phone that I had is a phone from the years of antiochos until his phone number yeah Adam or the phone yet but so high sits on so what happened he says but once a month I would go to my out of my mom's house or some relative's house to visit and they had a computer there or phone there or something and I couldn't wait to go visit this relative that I couldn't stand just to go use their computers like I said I can't do what I wanted meaning that all of these tools the software and the phone and all that stuff it's all good but if you don't have you got charm I mean if you're not scared to death to destroy your relationship with Hashem to destroy your llamas a to destroy your alarm bar at some point you're gonna feel you have to be scared how by going over this information over and over and over again and realizing the Shem gave me the ability to enjoy life physically emotionally spiritually and so on but there's permissible ways and it's forbidden ways once you understand the consequence of a reaction you start realizing it's simply not worth it so this was another sham hopefully we'll give you some more ideas of what to do in the etcetera arrives there's many other ideas that I remember having with others I'm on this or anyone that needs these more ideas of how to stop it or what to do another sham I'm more than happy to help if you're a very serious person but again remember the key is you watch your mind if you're not if you don't have you watch your mind nothing can help you nothing can help you even Asher himself is limited he can't help you why if you got afraid of him he can't help you [Music]