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Why was Adam representing all of mankind
created last in the process of creation?
There are two teachings, two answers
that contradict each other.
So the first answer is really a message
of humility. We should really understand
that we are created last and we
shouldn't be hy. What's the message? The
message is this that God created the
yatush. The yatush is the gnat. The knat
before you. So don't think you're so
special and so important because even
this little tiniest very insignificant
creature called the gnat thatnat comes
before you in in cre in creation. And so
the fact that the gnat is before us.
Wow. Where we have to realize he came
before me. This gnat nothing of a thing
comes before me. And it should humble me
and really put me in a proper
perspective of of of of where I am in
the in this picture of God's world. That
is the one of the teachings. Okay. The
other teaching is saying the exact
opposite. It's saying this that because
mankind is the purpose, the true purpose
and the pinnacle of God's creations,
therefore he was created last in order
that everything should be prepared and
ready for Adam and Eve when they were
created. So like if you're having a
party, so first you prepare the party.
For example, let's a beautiful wedding.
I just a wedding last night, a very very
nice wedding. So you have a lot of
planning, a lot of preparation, a lot of
discussion and then you have to execute
by this setting everything up and you're
going to get flowers and you guys why do
I need flowers? You need flowers, why do
I need the musician, three musicians,
five photographers, three videographers
these days, you're going to put a lot of
work and effort into preparing this
wonderful wedding. When does all this
become a wedding? It's the moment the
bride and groom walk onto the scene is
now we have a wedding. Till then we
don't have a wedding and the purpose of
creation was for mankind to come onto
the scene and do his thing so to speak.
And it's and this is not creation until
we arrive. And so God prepared
everything in advance to be ready for us
to take his creation and do what we're
supposed to with it. And therefore we
were created last because we're the most
important
essential element of creation. The
reason why the nat is called an ins
insignificant tiny creature is because
uh it it's misi.
It it takes in and doesn't give out. And
what that essentially means in its most
basic level is it it takes in and it
doesn't go it doesn't excrete. Now
that's what the gamarra says. A creation
by God that only takes and doesn't give
back is the most insignificant creature
that that can exist in this world.
Specifically when we're speaking about
Adam, mankind.
So we that have discernment and have
intellect and were essentially created
to emulate our creator, right? We were
created in the divine image and our job
in life is to be as godlike as we can.
And so a person that comes into this
world and takes
and never gives back is the most
insignificant creature that exists in
the world. And that's what the sages are
telling us right now that this gnat that
God created he created in a way that
when we look at it again when we look at
it we see it it it has to take because
you and nothing can live without taking
and we don't see it ex giving back
anything back to the the world so to
speak and again it doesn't mean charity
because it's a but the message is this
everything in this world was created for
us to look at and learn from that knat
is supposed to teach me if I emulate
that knat
I'm worse than it. I'm even lower than
it. And I become the most insignificant
creature in the world because even it
has an advantage over me because it in
taking and not giving back ultimately is
fulfilling the will of its creator. When
the gnat doesn't give anything back,
it's because God created it that way to
be that creature that takes and doesn't
give back. But I I was created to be
like God. What is God? God is a giver.
God created all of this and all of us in
order to give of his goodness to love
and to give. That's what everything
boils down to when it's all said and
done is love and giving. And that's what
God is in essence. And that's what we're
meant to be in emulating him. And so
when I come into this world and I take
and not give back, I'm the worst thing
that exists because I'm perverting my
purpose. I'm going against what I was
created to be. And therefore, I'm I'm
one I'm even lower than that. That's the
message. How do we fulfill our true
purpose in creation? What did God create
us to be like? Right? You know, there
was a campaign, I don't know, 20, 25
years ago. I want to be like Mike. Who
do you think they were talking about?
>> Michael Jordan.
>> Yes. Yes. I want to be like Michael
Jordan. That was the campaign that they
made to sell whatever they were selling
in his name. Okay. So, that was the
campaign. I want to be like Mike. So the
question is this and it's a very
important question we're going to ask
right now. What are you living for? What
are you living for? In other words, what
do you admire?
Who who are your role models in life?
Who do you want to be like? Really, who
do you really want to be like?
Um
why do I say that? Because in the end of
the day, we are we are
looking for something. We are looking
for something in in in our lives. And
the rabbis tell us that what you praise
tells a lot about who you really are.
Meaning look at what a person is excited
about. Look at a person what a person
chooses to talk about. What gets him
gets him happy and excited and what he's
into. What you admire, what you praise
in in in in your mindset is ultimately
what you give your life to on some
level. Uh, I want to a reality break. We
are all part of some kind of cult
because whatever you live for in this
little bit of a stretched interpretation
of cult is your cult. Whatever you
choose to give your sweat and blood and
life and energy and time and your and
your soul to, that is what you're that
is your cult. Now, according to that
definition, I'm I'm I've joined the cult
of Judaism. Right? So, is there a
problem with that? You know, people want
to try to label Orthodox Jew as a cult.
I'll say I'm not. Okay, it is a cult.
But you know what? We're all have we all
have to choose a cult to live with and
to live by. At least my cult is a cult
of truth. At least my life is based on
reality and truth. And that is my cult.
Your cult is based on the whims of your
heart. It's based on what suits me today
and then what suits you tomorrow, you'll
join a new cult. So, we all have to
choose what to give our life to. And the
question is, what are we giving it to?
What what are we meant to give it to?
Even better way to put it, God created
us for a purpose.
What is our true purpose, which is in
more personal terms, who am I really?
Who am I in the end of it all? Am I a
pinball that's been dropped in a machine
being bounced around, pushed around by
all of the elements in that pinball
game, which is a lot of motion, a lot of
commotion, but but but no actual choice
of my own to be going anywhere. So, it's
a lot of movement getting nowhere
because it's not you moving, it's you
being moved. So when am I living on a
level where I'm just being moved instead
of being taking control of myself and
moving somewhere that I choose to go to?
That's a big question we all have to ask
ourselves.
Okay, but let's getting getting back to
the point of who is my role model and
what who am I trying to be like and what
was I meant to be like. So in the end of
the day, God created human beings in
this world that they can aspire
ascend to become godlike to be like
Hashem. So we our all the motto of every
single person in this room and every
single person out there should be I want
to be me. I don't want to be someone
else. I want to be me. But what does it
mean to be me? It means to be the mei
that you were created to be. Not the
perverted, distorted version that you
want to create yourself, but to be the
person Hashem had in mind when he made
you because he's the one that made you.
And how do we do that? So, Hashem shows
us in the Torah how to do that. It is by
emulating emulating our maker. The the
sages say God is compassionate and
merciful and giving and loving. We must
be like that as well. God is also
disciplined. God is also powerful. God
fights wars when it's necessary.
Abraham, the kindest person that ever
lived. Don't let anyone fool you.
There's no there doesn't exist in
reality someone that was more kind than
Abraham. You know how I know? Because
Abraham represented the divine attribute
of kindness as it is revealed in this
world through his life mission of just
doing the will of God. So Abraham is a
kindness that transcends what we can
understand of kindness because he wasn't
just a nice guy. He wasn't just a kind
guy. He was kindness. And you can't be
more kind than Abraham was. Abraham. Yet
when it was necessary, he went and
fought a war vigorously, powerfully, and
killed his enemies. Killed enemies. But
why were he why were they his enemies?
God forbid they weren't his enemies
because he hated them. They were his
enemies because they were fighting
against God and they were destroying
God's world. And therefore, he did what
was necessary. And that's called tough
love. He didn't stop loving the world
when he fought that war. He did it
because he loved the world. We see the
same thing with Pinas. Pinas did not
kill Zimry in the story in the Bible
where where a Jewish leader was killed
together with some woman. He didn't kill
them because he hated them. He killed
them because he loved the Jewish people
and he loved Hashem and they were
destroying
us and that had to stop and that's
called tough love.
So when I say that God is love and
kindness and mercy, it is he is that's
all he really is. But it doesn't mean we
have to be blind and foolish and let
people step all over us. We have to also
understand how to balance that. And
that's why there's a lot of things we
have to learn in how to properly
represent and be what Hashem wants us to
be. But the core of it all is is
kindness. And we're going to focus on
that that attribute for a moment because
we spoke about the gnat last week that
is a taker. The gnat doesn't it it eats
but it doesn't excrete. And that
represents the idea of being an ultimate
taker. We on the other hand human beings
were created to be the ultimate givers.
And since our purpose in this world is
to be a giver. So that is the
encompassing energy that we must attach
to. And within that idea that we are
givers, we emulate God. He's a giver.
He's a lover. He's a helper. So we have
to be givers, helpers, and lovers. But
within that bubble, we also have to
understand when we have to put a
boundary, protect ourselves, defend,
push things away. We have to be smart
about that. But that is ultimately what
we're here in this world to do. So how
do we be the me that we're supposed to
be? How do we become the people that
we're supposed to become? It's through
realizing that we're here to add
goodness to this world, to add light to
this world. And that includes sometimes
pushing things away, sometimes not.
Okay? But that so that's step one.
That's step one of this idea. We have to
understand who we are, what we are, and
where we're going. And we talked about
who our role models are. And so getting
back to that point before we conclude
this part,
who we idolize and emulate is ultimately
who and what we live for. And so we have
to understand are we going for the
external,
you know, like imagine you get a
present. The box is and you're going to
choose your present based on the box
that the present is in. So there's an
empty box, but it's the most beautiful
box. Then there are less beautiful boxes
with something inside of it. Choosing
the empty box because it's the nicest
box is a choice for nothing. Absolutely.
You get nothing out of that. Serving the
external, serving the box is is would be
tantamount so to speak to idol worship
because you serve nothing. Certainly not
God and certainly not yourself. So what
does it mean to to to choose the box of
life, the external? It means to choose
your body on its own. When you choose to
worship and serve and feed and live as
only a body, you've cut the real half of
you off and all you are is a box with
nothing inside of it. Now, that box is
nice. And if all you're going to do is
look at that box, you can have a you can
live a life on an external level
thinking that I am living the good life.
money, power, delicacies, the delicious
foods, hotels,
resorts, mansions, CARS, BOATS, PLANES,
and all all, as I say in Hebrew, and in
another few moments, rocket ships. I can
escape to a different planet. I don't
have to escape to an island. I can
escape to a different galaxy one day.
[laughter] What did you accomplish with
that?
All you do is get lost.
That's choice number one. That's the
wrong choice.
>> The box.
>> The choice is what's in the box. And
that is the soul. Who am I really? What
am I really? Really? I'm a soul in a
body. You can compare the body to a nice
suit. A suit that you wear for 70, 80
years. How many of those years really
count? How many of those years can you
really do something with? You know, from
from birth till about 10, I don't even
know who you are. You're just a you're
just a box cuz you're not developed yet.
Your mind's not developed. Your heart,
your soul is still working. It's finding
out how to get involved. From 10 on,
let's say in a modern world, like people
are very, very quick to getting things.
From 10 on, maybe there's a person there
to really teach and connect with and and
be but but then at about 50, the body
starts breaking down. You get old, you
get tired. Certainly 60, 70. So there's
only a small amount of time that we have
to actually do what we're here to do.
And so what we're here to do is is be a
body and soul living through life, not
just a body. And when you choose the
soul, so that's that's a deep idea. We
have to appreciate what that means to be
a soul. It doesn't mean to fly away from
your body. Doesn't mean to to to leave
your body because that's not being
alive. Being in this world, you have to
be a body and a soul. There's an option
to be only a body, but there is no
option to be only a soul because being
only a soul is what you were in heaven
before you came down into this world.
But but but being only a body you can
be. That's called being a gnat. How is
that called being a gnat? Because let's
look at the story now. A body on its own
is an inanimate object. We see when a
person dies the body lies flat and does
not move. There is no movement from just
the body. What gives that body life?
What makes that body able to get up and
move? It's the soul. So talk about being
a taker and not a giver. We said the nat
takes and doesn't give back.
When the body takes the life it gets
from its soul and and doesn't give
anything back to that soul, that's being
the lowest, most worthless, selfish
creature in in existence. It means
you've taken only
only you've only taken life. The every
breath, every moment you that's the life
you got from your soul. You've taken it
from the soul and then you said the heck
with you. I don't I don't want to know
you. Why? I'm too busy knowing myself.
I'm too busy feeding my animal. That's
the most selfish, worthless life a
person can live is a life that's purely
serving, worshiping the animal in him.
He's an addict to himself. And you look
around, addicts have no time for anyone
else. Nothing else and anyone else but
their addictions. And that's what we
become. And that becomes the most
ruthless, sorry, worthless. Ruthless is
the next topic, worthless creature in
existence. In Hashem's world, you become
the worst, the lowest.
Give something back. Appreciate. You got
your life from the soul. Make it be give
something back to it. Get live a life
together with your soul. So the the
kindness that the body and our
personality that we we're really all
just bodies here with our personalities
and our mindset. The the greatest
kindness we can do in this world for
ourselves is to realize and give back to
that entity which gave me my life is my
soul. Give back to my soul by living a
life that's both body and soul. Live for
the soul and you don't lose out because
when you live for and with your soul you
get real life. You get you get the box,
but now you get the wonderful package in
that box. The real priceless diamond
that has been sent to you is not the
box. IT'S IN IT'S THE DIAMOND IN THE
BOX. And that's life. That's reality.
That's emulating Hashem because the soul
is the divine element in this
partnership. It's a part of light and
and and goodness and truth. And so when
you connect with your soul, you're
connecting with reality and truth.
That's that's how we can be kind and
emulate Hashem is by by giving back to
this very soul that he gave me. How does
the soul emulate Hashem? So there's a
verse beautiful verse in the Torah. It
says
ala
right do not stand on the blood of your
brother which idally on the blood of
your brother which really means if you
see your fellow person
you know within the Jewish nation your
fellow Jew dying don't stand back and
watch him die you have to get help him
help keep him alive save his life that's
the literal translation of don't stand
on the blood of your brother but in a
deeper sense. In a deeper sense, we're
taught that the s the nephesh, the the
the vitality, the the really the soul
dimension of the body, not the soul
soul, but the but the the the the more
spiritual level of my body lies within
my blood. In the blood, the soul is in
the blood. The nephesh really, which is
the life force of the body is in the
blood. Now, there's this divine soul
that's there. So the puzz on this level
is saying to the soul, don't just watch
the body struggle and suffer in its
addictions, in its prisons. Help it
because that's what you were created
for. You you have to be a giver as well.
The soul gives to the body by helping
it. So when body and soul help each
other, they lift each other up, unite,
and rise to an unbelievable godly level.
That's what it means to be like Hashem.
And that's the kindness that the soul
can do for the body. So we that and
that's lose the unity. And when they're
each selfish, then you have separation
and you have they don't have real life.
You have a an addict and this imprisoned
soul. And that's why the continuation of
this idea that do not idle stand idly by
watching your body, your your so your
nephesh struggle dying a slow death 70
80 years. instead live a long life
together, body and soul. And then you
have something when when you're when
it's all said and done. And that's
when the body loves the soul and the
soul loves the body back, then you've
created a oneness, a harmony, and a
unity between the two. And that's
godlike and that's really living.
With this introduction, we're going to
appreciate a beautiful story. I love
stories. a beautiful story in the
gamarra that's going to talk about a
negative side of the relationship
between body and soul. We'll talk about
that the odd couple of body and soul.
There was a cute TV series odd couple.
They both got on each other's nerves.
There's a negative relationship and
result from body and soul and there's a
positive one. The garra this teaching
from the sages only really speaks about
the negative one. But you know we're
going to create the positive one as well
and let me share this with you. very
powerful idea and what this will
conclude.
The the the story goes like this.
There's a blind man and a lame person.
Basically, there's a person that can't
walk and a person that can't see. Two
separate people.
And they're sitting on the side of the
road and the person that can't see
smells this beautiful fragrance and
smells from this wonderful orchard full
of the the best fruits, a variety of
fruits, delicacies, beautiful tasty
fruits, okay? I mean, in the modern
world, let's just call it a a an all you
can eat buffet at the Waldorf Atoria,
right? You're you're sitting outside at
the bus stop and you can just smell the
wonderful outdoor
buffet that this the Waldolf has made
and you're like, I wish I could just
have some of that roast beef steak or
whatever. Whatever you want, it's all
there because again, I admit that the
orchard bushel doesn't really get my
appetite going. But but the Waldorf's
all you can eat buffet, which is 500
bucks a plate. That gets my attention.
So again, for the modern person, it's
the Waldorf buffet and and you're
sitting outside watching that buffet,
just wishing you can join. And uh for
the rabbitic old version, it's the it's
this beautiful orchard with wonderful
fruits. And there's this uh lame person,
a person that really can't walk. His
legs don't work. And he's sitting there
and he can see and he's watching this
unbelievable buffet. And he wishes he
can join it, but he can't move. So what
do these two partners
Well, they they partner up, which is
really what body and soul partner up. So
these two people partner up. They have a
great idea. I'll be your eyes.
I'll be your eyes and you be my legs. Or
who's the initiator? Maybe the body.
I'll be your legs. You be my eyes. And
they partner up. And that's how they can
go into the buffet. That's how they can
go into the orchard and take whatever
they want now because they have the
ability to take whatever they want. not
paying for the buffet and certainly not
getting permission from the owner of
this orchard who is the king.
So they come into the orchard or buffet.
I'm going to keep coming back to that
steak, medium rare.
I learned the the the appreciation to
appreciate a medium rare steak. My
brother took me to a real steakhouse
because in Israel I just eat frozen I
just re defrost frozen steak and have
it. I went to a real steakhouse in
America when I was visiting and I got a
real medium rare steak and I was sold.
So, I'm in on I'm in. I'm in for the
steak. Anyway, so after they're done
eating to their full. So, they're back
in the orchard store. They're back on
the side of the road and in the other
store they're back at the bus stop. The
full satisfied
comes the police. You can't you can't
you got to pay in life. You got to pay
for everything. There's no free ride in
life. you don't pay this then you you
you have nothing you can't then you've
stolen it. So the police come and arrest
those two the two guys, the blind guy
and the and the guy and they
take him to jail to to to court in the
other story also the the the the guards
of the king come and because it was the
king's orchard and they grab them they
bring them to be on trial and who were
they on trial before? None of them the
king himself. In in the modern story,
some clown in a in a in a black suit,
some monkey in a black suit. Okay,
they'll tell him, "Oh, you didn't eat
$1,000 worth of food. enjoy, go home,
just don't eat more than a thousand
dollars of their food, then you're good.
That's that's what will happen today in
California at least. But uh but
basically in the real story, so you go
before the king. You're you're it's not
your country. You you're you're you
happen to exist in the country that
belongs to a a king. Somebody made this
country, this world. So the king now is
going to listen to your case. So the
lame guy says, "King, [laughter]
what can I do? I don't have legs. like
please what can I do? I'm I'm helpless.
The other guy says, "King, look at me. I
have no eyes. What can I do? I'm
helpless." So the king says, "You guys
are pretty slick. You know, you were
slick enough and and and and smart
enough to partner up in crime and figure
out how to steal all that stuff. So I'm
going to put you back together and
punish you because you did the crime
together. So therefore, you'll be
punished together." And that is the end
of that wonderful story. Which means
that ultimately we're coming to judgment
day. And when at the end of our lives,
we all come to that ultimate judgment
day. If you were partners in crime, if
you used your life and the power and
energy that was given to you through the
soul ultimately by God to to be
criminals to to to destroy Hashem's
world, then then then what you've done
is you've you've you've become the worst
thing that exists because you've been a
taker and a destroyer on top of that.
And then you will have to make amends
for that before Hashem himself in the
end of the days.
Okay. So that's the story in the Gumra
the I leave for us to figure out the
flip side of that coin. Flip side of
that story. And it goes like this.
And I'll start with a teaching from Aman
of Brelv
says like this. He says
if you think you have the power to
destroy, you have the power to rule over
things to take, then be a little smarter
and realize then you have the power to
build. If you have any real power of
your own, then why use it selfishly and
destroy when you could use it to build?
It's a much smarter decision and choice
to take what you've been given and use
it in the right way.
And that's the flip side of this story.
When those two partners came together,
partners in crime, it was a selfserving
partnership. They just wanted what they
wanted for themselves. They didn't want
anything for each other. And that's the
idea of just two people that are by each
other. But then there's people that are
with each other unite. Real marriage for
example is is a is is a is a union of
two separate entities that become one
through real love which equals unity.
The word love is in gamatri in Hebrew
aava is 13 because 13 equals the same
gamatri as the word ehad because a real
love selfless love a love that's based
on giving and putting the other person
first equals oneness because that makes
the two of you like one. And so the
relationship between the body and soul
when it's for crime and for destruction,
it's not love. It's not aava that makes
one. It's self love. It's I care only
about myself which keeps you as two
separate entities. And that's selfish.
And so it's the power of two selfish
entities instead of instead of two
giving entities. And so the solution to
this is to to unite body and soul not in
crime, not in destruction, but in
construction, in building this world, in
building themselves. And that means to
become givers and doers of good. And so
that's the flip side of the story. We
have two options in front of us. When we
take the life we have and use it, use it
in this world, we can accomplish
tremendous, tremendous things. we can
really transform this world into the
most beautiful world. And that is
exactly what Hashem is is waiting on us
to do. Hashem could have made Jewish
philosophy 101. Hashem could have made a
perfect world. Saved us the entire
headache. Why did he not create a
perfect God's perfect? Why did he not
create a perfect world? Why didn't he
create us perfect? You know why? Because
he wanted us to do it. So he made a
world imperfect so that we can make it
perfect. That's an amazing thing. Then
we can become partners with God also in
love. and goodness and giving and become
one with God because again love is one.
God loves us in the way that he wants us
to be with him, one with him. So he made
a world imperfect. He made us imperfect
with tendencies to kind of get lost and
destroy. But when we overcome all of
that and we build instead, then we
become partners with Hashem and we
create the perfect beautiful world that
becomes our world to share forever with
Hashem. And that's what this is all
about. And so that's the choices before
us right now. We'll conclude with
basically these final words of hopefully
encouragement is this. You only have a
short moment in time. You're here today
and gone tomorrow. If we don't use this
time for what it was truly created for.
So then at the end, we said ignorance is
bliss. Ignorance is bliss until you
reach the end and you realize you were
ignorant all your life. Then that's not
bliss. That's that's that's pain. So if
you want to avoid the real pain that
comes later, face reality now. That's
the that's the real message we're giving
out here. And we should all take this
information and energy and and ideas to
to face our
cycle is going to renew. We're going to
face a new year, a new rash, another
judgment. We should be where we need to
be together with ourselves, with each
other, with Hashem, and and and face
that judgment and merit a good judgment,
a merciful judgment, and use the coming
year. We learn from the past year to use
the coming year in a much better way. Uh
the secular world wants to forget last
year. Every New Year's Eve is a time to
get drunk and forget the year before
because something that miserable, who
wants to remember? The real job in life
is to remember the previous year. That
way you make more of the next year to
come.